Tuesday ,Jul 28, 2009
DEAN
Patsy leaving was a heartbreaker.
Tue August 4
I still can't believe Stella is 1 !!! It was just yesterday she was born. Now she walks, talks and uses the potty!! Yes, I said uses the potty. She's a genius. . . A gorgeous little genius. She'll be driving by age 2. Patsy leaving was a heartbreaker. She has become such an important part of this family. It's like having a friend, sister, mom, and grandma all in one. We love her so much!!! We're going to have to make another baby real soon. We miss our Patsy.
Having uncle Dan, Elizabeth, and my sister and brother-in-law stay at the house with us reminded me of growing up. We always had a full house. Not enough room, but lots of fun and love. It made me really miss my mom, dad and sisters. We'll just have to keep throwing parties and having sleep overs to get our family fix.
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I find it funny that people post all these mean comments. The reason it is so funny is that none of them can spell. The only thing they are showing is that they can't spell and have probably been hurt one why or another. As for the show I love it. My husband and I watch it whenever it is on. You guys are great and I can't wait to see what you guys do next. A piece of advice of the mean bloggers grab a dictionary!!! Also, if what is going on in the media isn't bothering them, what makes you think that what you post will.
people be talking stupid.yes adultery is wrong and I am not a young naive person but it is obvi. that even #&@% happens to the best people. sometimes people fall in love and it is not planned.until you know their situation please don't judge this i know from personnal experience. my husband and i have been married for 12yrs. and we have recently seperated and he was not always faithful and then he just left me and our five kids. and he does not try to see our kids so it could be worse LOL grow up and leave the judgement where it belongs and it isn't with you. I ENVY TORI AND DEAN THEIR LOVE AND THE SHOW GIVES ME SOMETHING TO LAUGH AT AND I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT LAUGHING AT THEM I MEAN WITH THEM. WISHING I HAD SOMEONE TO LOVE ME LIKE DEAN LOVES TORI. BEST WISHES AND CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOUR NEXT SEASON HOPEFULLY SOON. FROM SMALL TOWN PALESTINE TEXAS
Hey Dean, I'm another Canuck and while i luvs ya man i still have a beef with you. Please please please try to remember your wifes name. Tori. Tori. Tori.
Not mama. Tori.
OK?
Stella ain't your mama neither man.
Nicknames are cute. Monkey and Buggy, cute but c'mon, those precious children have names; and identities. Please stop calling Stella mama.
No more mama's. It sounds stupid and everyone knows you're Canadian and i don't want them to think Canadians are stupid.
Just call them their real names; its that easy.
Sometimes i think you forget Tori's name and i pray its not so. Not mama. Tori
Stella is your daughter not your mama.
Gawd that irks me so much every time you call them mama!
If you people are not a fan of Tori and Dean then maybe you should find something better to do!!! You should be so quick to judge when you come on here just to write nasty comments...Cause all of you are so perfect right????? Have you ever heard of "if you don't have anything nice to say . . ." I am a big fan. . .you guys are a wonderful couple and wonderful parents. I enjoy watching your show and love how down to earth you guys are! Keep up the good work! Tell Tori "3 is the new 2"! Love from Toronto Canada !
shut up go take care of your own life
Yes Dean loves the mother of his children Tori. Hopefully he will love her just like he loved the mother of his OTHER children--dumping MaryJO after 12 years of marriage for Tori even though they was in the process of adopting another child.
Yes Tori should feel very secure with wonderful Dean.
Dean Honey what a great movie I say last night you are so cute....I am a married mother and just wanted you to know that I am sure Tori is so in love and so happy I can see her glow....I watch your face as you were acting the love for your old highschool sweetheart and can only imagine the look on your face for the wife and mother you love....God bless you and your wonderful family
A REAL MAN doesn't dump his wife of 12 years and children. You were even adopting a child at the time yet you sc*ewed trashy (horse face-YOUR words) at the drop of the hat.
You are gross
It was really nice meeting you. You are a really down to earth guy. My son really enjoyed hanging out with you. Take care and hope we can meet again soon. God bless you, Tori and the kids!
Dean,
Thanks so much for being a real man! I just finished reading sTori Telling and I can see that Tori has been rough on herself and life has been rough on her. Celebrities put thier pants on just like we little people do. I am a mother of 3 year old twins and my husband is a great man, but lacks the "knowledge" of the word romantic. The little things you do for Tori will make difference in the end, but I am sure you know that. I know that there is some bad press about you lately, but chin up. All those people who say nasty things, should take a close look at thier own life, I am sure they have made difficult and moral decisions. I think you and T will make it work because you have great communication and that is key to any relationship. As far as your beautiful children, I just want to say that it is our job as parents to be better parents to our children than our parents where to us and you and Tori are off to a WONDERFUL start. I hope you really get a chance to read this, though I know you are both busy! I look forward to next seasons show and agian, thank you!
Right on Annalee.
Tori. Dean. Have you ever heard the word "KARMA" ??????
Boy, are you two gonna get bit in the a** !!!!
I can't agree with you more! My husband and I LOVE watching your show, simply because it is not scripted...it's everyday life in the lives of people we think don't have everyday lives!!!! So thank you for letting us in on Liam's temper tantrums (been there, done that...)
We LOVE your show!!! Please keep it going.... and as for those who say "he cheated on his first wife, he'll do it again"...not always the case. My sister was "the other woman", and she and her hubby have been happily married for 22 years...and I mean "happily" They adore each other to the ends of the earth...so Tori & Dean...go for it
And by the way, Dean, we're from just outside of Edmonton - Spruce Grove - fellow Canadians...yay!!
Dean will do the same to Tori and their children when someone better comes along. Tori is naiive if she doesnt realize this. I would feel sorry for her except that she slept with Dean KNOWING he had 2 kids and a wife. Sleezy. So Tori will get what she deserves. Unfortanately none of the 4 kids involved deserve it. they are just victims.
Hi Dean,
Hope you get to read this together with Tori and and the kids - it'll make you smile.
You make a great couple with adorable kids and have all the ingredients for great parents - you are very blessed and what you have is rare nowadays !
For me - I found love in Paris, France - where I met my husband 10 years ago, and now we share a wonderful life here in the States with our 3 kids.
I must ask why you chose the name Stella for your little girl ? It makes me think of Stella Artois and because my youngest son,( 6 months old) is named Jaeger (Jaeger Meister beer - I think I spelt that right ?) I thought it may be a cute idea to have them meet up for a playdate sometime ? I realise you live far away and dont get snow there unless you buy it !! but where we live, we do get snow in the winter. Perhaps they could have a tobogan playdate ?
Here's hoping you agree !!
Well said Liz. Commit adultery, lie, cheat, desstroy families and then you believe he didn't do it for the money. The ex wife is coming out with a book soon and good for her. She is sooooo better off without this deadbeat who is riding on his famous wife's coat strings---can you say K-fed. Tori is very stupid to believe someone sleeps w/you the first time he meets you and then the next day proclaims you are his soulmate. Wake up Ms. Spelling. I think he is actually quite sick in the head to tattoo his body with your face---mind of sicko.
Chery, you sound like a total twit. You must be very young. Stupid daft innocous platitudes...
"Things happen for a reason"
"No one has the right to judge"
Blah Blah Blah.
Here is a life lesson for you young naive one. People have a responsibility to live up to their responsibilites and committments..not dump a family and 2 young children (as di*ck-head-dean did), to run off a chase a money machine. He has FOUR children and no job. What a deadbeat. If his marriage was over with Mary Jo, he should have been MAN enough to tell her, and leave the relationship AND NOT do so by overlapping another relationship. Are you following this. The very fact that Mary Jo was blindsided by Dic*d-Dean leaving PROVES that she was not aware. In fact, just shortly before he hooked on to Tori the money train, he expressed to Mary Jo how much he loved her!! He is an ass and Tori obviously has self esteen issues if she belives that this deadbeat is the best she can do.
Agree w/Lola and Gina Michele. Nice people both Dean and Tori. I watch the show, used to be a great fan actually, even from Toris 90210 days. I see no evidence of any guilt on either one of their behalfs for the damage they did to Deans first wife and children. Make no mistake Dean and Tori are selfish people who cared more for their own org*asm than the other people and children they were hurting.
Clearly neither one has a high regard for marriage, their own marriage will be no exception. . .
hey Dean.......
i've been reading a lot of these blogs about what a s #&@% you are and how bad Tori is. What these people dont understand is that things happen for a reason. Everyone has a reason for being in our lives.
whether for a minute or for years. Things happen in relationships it could be bad, good or indifferent. We dont know truly what happened in your relationship with your ex. Apparently, the time with your ex was up. But, as for your not having any guilt over leaving them that's bs. You cried many tears over it. As for Tori she has more guilt about it. She loves your son very much and would do anything for him. I've been on both sides of this fence and its not fun. but, you and Tori must hold your heads up high and trust in your love for eachother.
I once loved the show and adored Tori and Dean's relationship, but as I started to watch the show and read their blogs, I just didnt admire them so much. Sleeping with a married co-worker/co-star on the first date is not admirable. It's not okay to sleep with a married man on the first, second or third date. Is this something you want to set as an example to your children? Does Tori not have any dignity or sympathy towards Dean's now ex wife or their children? The people here commenting about how much they like Tori and Dean are blind to their wrong doing. Its just wrong to sleep with a married co-worker and then bloat about it after the fact. I do feel extremely sorry for Deans other children, what did they do to deserve this? It should have been up to Tori to make a stand and do the right thing by not sleeping with a married man with children. What comes around goes around and Tori and Dean will pay the price for it one day. It makes me sick to see Tori bloat about her "charity work" yet where was her "charity" when it came to Dean's previous wife and children? Get a grip Tori and see the reality of your reality show!
I couldnt agree with you more
"I once loved the show and adored Tori and Dean's relationship, but as I started to watch the show and read their blogs, I just didnt admire them so much. Sleeping with a married co-worker/co-star on the first date is not admirable. It's not okay to sleep with a married man on the first, second or third date. Is this something you want to set as an example to your children? Does Tori not have any dignity or sympathy towards Dean's now ex wife or their children? The people here commenting about how much they like Tori and Dean are blind to their wrong doing. Its just wrong to sleep with a married co-worker and then bloat about it after the fact. I do feel extremely sorry for Deans other children, what did they do to deserve this? It should have been up to Tori to make a stand and do the right thing by not sleeping with a married man with children. What comes around goes around and Tori and Dean will pay the price for it one day. It makes me sick to see Tori bloat about her "charity work" yet where was her "charity" when it came to Dean's previous wife and children? Get a grip Tori and see the reality of your reality show!
How low to meet someone at work--have sex with them the first day you meet and dump your wife and children. Then move to another country away from your children.
Deans friend outed him publically. Nice guy Dean--even nicer person Tori==she created the family she always wanted at the EXPENSE of Deans FIRST FAMILY.
Tori and Dean deserve each other. Their kids will end up in a broken home just as his last ones have. . ..
Hi Dean,
I have just completed a screenplay entitled "Public Appeal" and you would be killer as the lead character, Melvin Belli. The story covers brutal executions, meetings with serial killers, being on a first name basis with Madam's, he was always guilty of wild partying with mobsters and famous actors. It is a legal thriller/romance and I think you would blow it off of the screen. I have seen you in several parts now and I think it would be a good fit for you. I was Melvin Belli's daughter-in-law and I saw the real guy in all his wild and crazy ways. He was great at making money but somehow never cared about keeping it. He redefined modern law as we know it and did so either stoned or drunk- which ever was aviable to him. My email is on this blog. If you are interested please contact me, Thanks, Susan Belli
"Let He Without Sins Cast The First Stone"
You are are pathetic. Who are you to judge Tori & Dean. You don't know the real truth as to why they fell in love with each other. They are happy with each other and with their children. They are wonderful. It's a great show.
And lets face it I'm sure you ladies have some skeletons in your closets!!!!!!!
I agree with you...detrimental comments should be kept to themsleves...you know when you read all that stuff you have to understand that it's intertainment...you can't get that involved in someones life...it's halarious reading all this crap...and to think that people actually have an opinion about it?...They were both married at the time they met..they both had a family ...They know what's going on in their life...I love watching the show...but it's just a show..!!!..come on people give them a break..how do you that maybe their not behind this..getting people to talk about them?...between seasons..?
what crap, youre a stay at home mom, you would be livid if your husband suddenly dumped you and made another family. "can't help wityh who you fall in love" what crap--scr*wing someone while your wife is at home with your children is a CHOICE. Dean is a louse and Tori is worse given that she is a woman and KNEW he was married with little kids.
I read some of the comments. Sometimes you just cant help who and when you fall in love. I have 3 kids and am a stay at home mom and you guys keep me going ( tivo and watch at 5am ) I wish your show was on more. I have you and your family in my prayers :)
All i can say is WOW! The truth about you finally came out, your a sorry ass excuse for a man, you say you dont like kissing her shes a horse. Well let me tell you something you are one to talk, your not that good looking at all and you would be nothing without Tori, you were a struggling acotr looking for fame and money and you couldnt get it until you met soemone like Tori, shame on you, u cheated on your first wife and you will do it to Tori when u get tired of her. i have no words for you, i just hope Tori wakes up before its too late and she leaves u with nothing cuz if ur only with her for the money then ur a poor excuse for a man and she should divorce u and leave u on the street with nothing hahahaha then what would u do oh ik u would run back to ur ex wife in a heartbeat. gorw up and be a man stop being a pig and treat Tori and those kids right they did nothing to u
All i can say is WOW! The truth about you finally came out, your a sorry ass excuse for a man, you say you dont like kissing her shes a horse. Well let me tell you something you are one to talk, your not that good looking at all and you would be nothing without Tori, you were a struggling acotr looking for fame and money and you couldnt get it until you met soemone like Tori, shame on you, u cheated on your first wife and you will do it to Tori when u get tired of her. i have no words for you, i just hope Tori wakes up before its too late and she leaves u with nothing cuz if ur only with her for the money then ur a poor excuse for a man and she should divorce u and leave u on the street with nothing hahahaha then what would u do oh ik u would run back to ur ex wife in a heartbeat. gorw up and be a man stop being a pig and treat Tori and those kids right they did nothing to u
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NICE WONDERFUL DEAN who left his wife of 12 years and small son and newly adopted daughter to scr@w Tori and make 2 new kids. Tori and unfortunately her kids as well will end up left behind. Shame on you Tori.
HOW COULD YOU LEAVE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS AND JUST GO AND MAKE ANOTHER FAMILY?? HOW COULD YOU SLEEP WITH TORI THE FIRST TIME YOU MET HER WHILE STILL MARRIED AND ADOPTING A BABY WITH YOUR WIFE? HOW SAD FOR YOUR EX WIFE, JACK AND LOLAQ
dean you should really sue star magazine and bust that so called friEND of yours right in the mouth. you and tori are a WONDERFUL COUPLE, ALSO LET TORI HANDLE THE SITUATION WITH HER MOM, TORI LOVES HER AND I HOPE THEY GET IT TOGETHER SOON.
Finally. You are busted. It is nauseating to read these tween comments praising Dean. I am so amused to see that STAR magazine and Dean's own friend have busted him.
It is clear to anyone with a reasoning realistic, (not starstruck, although no-talent-mcder #&@% ) is far far far from a being a star.
He left his wife, son and newborn adopted daughter for money bags Tori, or so he thought.
And she got next to nothing from daddy Aaron. Wow, I would have love to see that reaction. Great plan down the tubes.
He will leave Tori if something better comes along, although who would have this jerk. Get a job, support your family, both of them, all FOUR children you deadbeat. Where is Jack these days? Don't hear much about him. poor little kid.
Busted dead beat inheritance chaser. Hope Mary Jo, the beautiful one is having a laugh about this.
i love you dean lol tori is so lucky to have you, i wish i had a husband that would do anything for me. You and Tori are my inspiration for one day finding true love. I truly believe you guys are ment for eachother. The kids are so adorable Liam reminds me of my daughter albanee she is also 2 and does the same things Liam does i tell her thats her future hubby lol. Keep it up and may GOD BLESS
the truth has come out
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May God judge you both. Keep your detrimental comments to yourselves. Oh, have you lived your life through this young couple's life? Have you walked in their shoes? You don't know anything real, just as I don't, but be aware, your comments are hurtful to those who wish for a life. Be nice people. God Bless you and yours.
HOW COULD YOU LEAVE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS AND JUST GO AND MAKE ANOTHER FAMILY?? HOW COULD YOU SLEEP WITH TORI THE FIRST TIME YOU MET HER WHILE STILL MARRIED AND ADOPTING A BABY WITH YOUR WIFE? HOW SAD FOR YOUR EX WIFE, JACK AND LOLA
I LOVE YOU GUYS! AND I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL THE THIRD! IF YOU HAVE A MyYearbook.com ACCOUNT PLEASE ADD ME! MY EMAIL IS DannyJ@Yearbook.com THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
Dean and Tori, I watch your show every time it's on. I can't wait for the next season. You have a wonderful family and Thank you both for letting us share your family. Tori-- Let you mother go you have your family now. Dean and the kids and your special friends.. That's your family. It's you mom's that will be sorry so day. Not you!!
Dean you love your family and it shows... Keep it up... Tori you are wonderful mother.. That's all that matters.
Please keep the show! I hate the end of the season!
I just wanted to say that I was in a restauraunt yesterday and I met Dean. He was so friendly and considerate when I spoke to him. I was very nervous but just wanted him to know how much I truly love the show, and am a big fan of he and Tori. They are wonderful people, and parents. I have two beautiful sons who make me smile, and yet make me a bit crazy everyday. So my t.v. time is a release, and I couldn't think of a better so to watch. Thanks for being so awesome to a fan yesterday! Lori
Do honestly answer questions left on this blog? Wanted to know before I post something. I LOVE the show, and am hoping for a season 5, and possibly Miss Tori & the Guncles can all be expecting a new bundle of joy. Hug & Kisses to Miss Lady Bug & Mr Monkey, as well as the rest of the family.
Dean - Tori is so lucky to have a husband like you. I tell my husband all the time I wish he could be like you! Or take lessons from you! I love the show! You are so considerate of Tori's feelings and are always there for her and the kids! You are all so lucky!
Dean, you and your wife have had such a tremendous effect on my life! Ive always wanted a fairytale relationship but never had it and I watch you two over come ridiculous cir #&@% stances! I enjoy watching you and your family and you give me hope that someday I will have an incredible family. Its possible, I watch you everyday make it happen. Thank you and God bless you!
Dean,
Its time for another lil sister for Monkey.... in the off season, put the bikes up and get to puttn that bun in the oven. you make beautiful babies, when is your oldest son coming back? you truly are content when they where all together.
Many blessings and good luck, I hope this one is another boy, then one more... a girl.. (2 and 2)..
See you on the telli next season, hope Tori's pregnant when it starts.
Much love and respect
i was just wondering where tori's brother Randy is in all of this? we haven't seen him nor has anyone even mention his name.? i can respect if he didn't want to get involved, but is he supporting his sister and part of his niece and nephew's life?
DEano-it was great to meet your sister and husband as well as Tori's uncle Danny-what a fun man huh?? :-) and his wife-nice people ehh?? and everyone else too.
Renate
ps hope to see you all back here really soon-we miss you.
Dean,
I'd love to see a reunion with your family including your son Jack..I've seen you in many of the lifetime movies of the week..Too bad you lost your mother so young, she couldn't have been very old when she died. You mentioned you miss your family. including your father. In one episode you mention how you severed all ties with your father.
well i think if having another babay is what u want to do then go for it. Pasty is a really good person she knows what to do and gets the job done.Tori is the best mom next to me that i know of
if you guys do have another baby what do you want this time? i thought it was so cute when Liam brought in Stella's babydoll and said he wanted another sister. SO CUTE!!!!!!!! You guys are so great together.
I LOVE YOUR SHOW!!!!! You guys look so happy. Yall are such great parents. Being able to juggle Hollywood and parenthood seems like it would be difficult but yall make it look easy!! I hope your show continues for a long time to come!! Good luck with your Mom Tori!!
I can't believe I watch the show but I must admit it is really good. I think you guys make a great couple and the kids are adorable. I know many people feel that you are acting and a free loader but I think your love for your family is genuine. Tori is very lucky to have a supportive spouse and great friends. When you have a wife as busy as Tori it is not uncommon for the husband to stay home more to help with the children and support your wife when she needs you to be there .
I wish you guys the best...
Another BABY.... please oh please! i love u guys so much my boyfriend and i watch you every tuesday... we have a two yr old daughter and she loves to watch it tooo ! Tori is like my idol, i wish I could be a supermom like her. She does everything to the best! And sorry Dean but I think the next child has to have a HUGE 1st bday party... : ) I love u all !
I think having another child will bring Patsy back make Tori happy as well as you Dean. Im just watching an episode where you are kissing your bike I want to compliment you and Tori on the approach you have with one another in family situations. It is very obvious that you both love each other so much and the kids too!
You guys keep luving each other and making good examples for your children. Ill miss you tori and dean and the children...hope to see you guys next episode.
Dean,
I totally enjoy watching the four of you, along with your friends and family conduct your life, its truly entertaining. I applaud your commitment to your wife, children and yourself. If you ever need tips on anything related to photography, my husbands has 20+ years as a photographer and camera store owner and is always willing to help a fellow enthusiast. Hope the four of you enjoyed your vacation because it was definitely over due and well deserved! Can't wait for the next season!
Dean you and Tori rule you two are the best. I agree with you about Tori's mom but i see Tori's point too. She will always hold out for her love. Your just going to have to be there for her when her mom lets her down. I love your show can't wait for the new season
Dean,
You remind me of my husband so much. Hilarious, outgoing, likes to have an adventurous spirit, loves life and his family, sweet, and a loving father. I love watching you guys because I feel like I'm watching my life from the outside. We do not have a relationship with my husbands parents anymore, since this past Fathers Day, and it's really sad. My mother in law is very selfish and hateful and mean, and she is missing every second of our sons life. It was her choice and her loss. She lives 20 minutes down the road and she's only seen him 4 times in 16 months. You are doing the right thing protecting your family. That's all you can do. We do not like drama, but every family has it somewhere. Just keep living your lives to the fullest and maybe things will come around with Tori's mom. If not, it's her loss, not yours. My mom lives 2500 miles away and has done more and seen more of our son than my own mother in law 20 minutes down the road.
Keep up the great spirit!!!
Rachael
What a wonderful thing you did for your wife. Kudos to you for having the heart and the strength to tell her how hard it is to see her suffer from her mom's inability to see her actions hurt.
My husband and I have gone thru the same thing with my mom and it has hurt. It took me 41 years to realize she is who she is and I am never going to be good enough for her. Your love will get Tori thru this. You have a beautiful family and wonderful friends.
I will miss your show on Tuesday nites and I hope you all have a wonderful summer.
Hugs,
Patti
All I can say about you is WOW!
well thats not all.... You are kind and considerate, loving and strong. I wish more people were like that!
You and Tori are so lucky to have found eachother and to "GET" eachother. Lucky you! It is so hard to find your other half these days and to do it in Hollywood! I'm so happy for you both. What a beautiful family inside and out. I love your show and look forward to seeing more.
Dean,
I think you are a very loving, considerate husband. Tori adores you as do your kids. You are a hands on father along with Tori which is nice to see.
Please help her a little more though so she is not so stressed out. Maybe you do and it doesn't show on tv, but other than that you are great. You don't mince any words but you mean well. I love all the surprises you come up with for Tori. She deserves them. I think it is cool you are from Canada. I have relatives there.
Keep up all the good work. I'll keep watching.
I think that Tor's Mom is ery selfess becaue
that i her grandchildren I think Toti's Mom is jealous of her.
I love your show and I hope it i on a very long
time on Oxygen
You make a beautiful cople and Stella an Liam
are beautiful
All the luck in the world.
I agree with you. Dean I can understand you, you dont want to see Tori in pain and Candy has done nothing put hurt Tori and I know that makes you very angry. But Tori had to invite her, but what bugged me is why did she RSVP. Nothing changed that would prevent her from coming. And you were on pins and needles at the party. I was hoping that you did not hit the guy about that mushroom...stupid. But I could see it in your eyes, and it was just the stress of seeing Candy or not. Just be supportive to Tori as you always have. I love you guys and I have been a fan since the series started. If there is anything I have to do on Tuesday, it has to be scheduled around you guys, because I do not move from 9-10 CST, on Oxygen. Best luck to you. Dont get pregnant too fast, I know you guys want Patsy back, and she will be back. I can't wait for the next season. Take care
Dear Dean and Tori, Wow it was bittersweet watching the last episode! i was really shocked to hear Dean openly talk about his childhood and whant it was like growing up with an Alcoholic in the family. that is the reason im not a drinker.i remember some things from my childhood, my grandfather use to drive around coumbus, ohio when i was little and in the car with Hard liquer and beer and Drink and Drive. now, he is 82 and in really bad shape physically due to his drinking and smoking for years. I can really relate to what u said Dean at Stella's party. on one side, i feel that Tori did the correct thing in inviting Candy to her Granddaughter's birthday party and on the other side i see the 5 year old in my self that wnated my mother and i to be close, she was 17 when she had me and i feel strongly, never wanted a child , but wanted to "Play around" with out the consequenses of her actions. i gave her many times to change the outcome of our relationship, but she chose be be Bitter and Mean! i am now 40, and as i write this blog, i know that my unborn children will never meet their "Grandmother" since she was Never a "MOTHER" to begin with. My Grandparents raised me.
I agree completely...there comes a time when the stress of the relationship just isn't worth the trouble..after looking at how Candy has affected T's life, I don't understand what the hurry is in bringing that to the kids...Candy is the type of self serving person that I protect my kids, their sanity and emotions from....stand strong Dean and keep your family safe and strong....we love you guys...TL
Okay the MUSHROOM thing.....seriously? Could they not find anything else to do?
Now the whole Candy situation, you have to understand it is harder for us girls to cutt ties. Men have this unique quality girls dont. When you decide your done, your done. But us girls always want to believe in the best of a person. When Tori gets tired of bumping her head on that wall she will stop trying.
I love yalls show. I just had to comment on the whole Candy issue. Dean I agree with you whole heartedly. My mom is very much like Tori's. It came to a point that she was just to unhealthy for my life and I had to cut the ties. It hurts that she isn't there but I have to admit that the drama with her there was just not worth it. You have such great friends that having her in your childrens life isn't worth it. I would rather my children not know their grandmother than not ever know whether or not they are going to be there consistantly. It may hurt Tori, but think of what the children would feel if she didn't stay around. If she has only seen Liam when he was a baby why should she see him now? Ya'll are a very lucky and uncommon couple, keep up the love and the shows AND make some more babies!!!!!
Dean (& Tori),
My father did the same thing to my family when my daughter turned 1. We live in Florida and made a trip back to Colorado so that our families we had left behind could celebrate her birthday with us. My daughter was born in FL and only those that came down for her birth had met her. So I planned in advance just like Tori did, sent an invitation to my father (whom I do not have a great relationship with) and he never RSVP'd but I still kind of expected him to show up. Didn't happen. Needless to say, I did not speak to him for a few years. My daughter is now 7, and does not know her grandfather. My son is 16 and he hardly knows him either. He and I hardly talk, he lives out of the country, and though I receive special occasion and holiday cards, he does not send my children birthday cards and they get an occasional Christmas present. So I have given up making the effort and say "it is what it is" and I cannot change the way he is.
I hope things work out in a way that Tori is happy. Watching your show I realize what an amazing and wonderful person she is. Your family is beautiful and I have heard you say it on the show that you are so proud of your wife and your family. You are a very lucky man, and Tori is a lucky woman to have a great husband like you. Wish we all could have the love that you guys have. Hugs, kisses and best wishes!
DEAREST TORY AND DEAN. I HAVE BEEN WATCHING YOUR SHOWS AS A FAMILY AND THEY ARE SO CUTE. TODAYS PARTY FOR STELLA WAS ADORABLE. I WAS SO SADDENED TO SEE THAT YOUR MOTHER CANDY DID NOT SHOW UP. HOW SHE CAN MISS HER GRANDCHILDRENS PARTIES AND GOING TO SEE THE FAMILY AND BE A PART OF THEIR LIVES IS MORE THAN I CAN SEE. CANDY, PLEASE GO TO VISIT THEM AND BE A PART OF THEIR LIVES. THEY NEED YOU AND YOU NEED THEM. I AM PRAYING THAT YOU SOON WILL GET TOGETHER AND PICK UP THE PIECES. TORY DID NOT KILL HER FATHER AND SHE WANTS TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE AND HAVE YOU BE A PART OF HERS AND YOUR GRANDCHILDRENS LIVES AND HER HUSBAND. PLEASE JUST GO SEE HER NOW AND START YOUR LIVES TOGETHER. DON'T WAIT UNTIL THEIR IS ANOTHER DEATH IN THE FAMILY. YOUR DAUGHTER AND HER HUSBAND AND WONDERFUL CHILDREN NEED YOU VERY MUCH. GOD BLESS YOU. IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME.
LOVE AND PRAYERS, VERNA
what a hard time for you dean. but i agree with you that inviting tori's mom was just one more way for her to get hurt. I think that tori should just go to her mothers house and say look if you want to see the kids than you can just call and set up a play date with them. Its hard to see tori such a beautiful women cry because her mother won't come to stellas 1st birthday after she r.s.v.p ed it is hard to watch. But i think that tori has a good rock in you and you will always take care of her. I also agree with you in that you should just have more kids to be able to get patsy back. Good luck and god bless you tori liam and stella always.
Dean, I have only written two celebrities in my 48 yrs. Never been into reality shows or celebrities for that matter. However, I have watched all of the Tor'i and Dean episodes. I cannot commend you enough Dean on the way your have handled this (Tori/Candy)issue...man oh man, have you ever been put between a rock and a hard spot. The things you have said to your wife, you have simply said because of the love you have for her, when she hurts...you hurt...understandably so. I think Dean, you have given Tori the best advice you could possibly give her..to wash her hands of Candy. I understand how Tori feels as well (that is her mother, her heart, blah, blah, blah)but that last episode when she didn't show up to the b.d. party was almost hard to swallow. Then when I realized she had even r.s.v.p.ed that she was coming..well...that was the straw that broke the camels back. Tori should drop that woman like a hot rock and never ever look back. Did she ever think that her mom is thinking the only reason she wants back in her life is because of greenbacks Dean? I know that isn't the case, but the mom might be thinking that..who knows. One thing for sure we know, the mom isn't thinking straight period...she's hard and cold as ice. Sometimes parents use the old purse strings to be dominate and always have control, I know this because my parents do the same thing to my sister and I, (or should I say try to anyway.) Bull corn, you all can do just fine without her mentally and financially maybe if Candy can get that through her head, she will come around. But Tori needs to quit holding her breath and go on with her life and concentrate on her family..and then if it happens..it happens. You are a great husband and father and Tori is so fortunate..vise versa. Hold your ground with her Dean, you are 100% right on this one, I don't care how many of Tori's other friends tell her differently...hang in there kiddo!!
Tori and Dean,
I was looking for good children's music for my 10 month old son and ran across a great album that you might like too! Check out:
Elizabeth Mitchell's You Are My Sunshine- there is a sweet song for your ladybug Stella called "Ladybug Picnic"- so cute! Love your show!
I Cant Say it enough to all my friends, but i am i love with u Dean....No lie...How I wish I was in Tori's Shoes..You are the Perfect Man in My dreams. You have this way of talking and understanding, And your an Amazing father. Not Every man can be like you. Because then you wouldn't be special. And you are. You inspire me to find someone who I can have a relationship with, like how You and Tori have. Not what i'ved been dealing with for the last 9yrs with my guy. Love is blind & we were young, have 2 very cute kids ourselves But what was i thinking ..Honestly I wish I met u first! Sry Tori..!!
Dean, I just want to say thank you for being an awesome husband to Tori and a wonderfurl father to Stella and Liam. I have a very similar situation to Tori and it is always refreshing to know that there are men like you out there. You allow me to have renewed faith that I will find my prince charming. So thank you you have now idea what just being yourself does for people like me.
Hi Dean I love watching u guys shows u guys look so happy together and i think that both ur childrens look soooo cute and hope u guys will have more and more new shows and wonderful adventures to come.:), :]
Hey Dean, i told the same thing Tori but you have 2 of the cutest kids ever!! I love the show and i almost cryed when the show was over(the song was soooooooooooo cute i loved it). I am only 13 but when i grow up i want to name my kids liam and stella i LOVE those names! You and tori make such a cute couple and you 2 are incredible people and parents You rock!!
Hi Dean. Was wondering if jack will appear in next season. i am assuming he does not have your exwife's permission to be on the show, but doesn't he live in LA now? i would think it would be a simple matter for him to come over on the weekends and holidays and just blur his face out like you do the pics on the wall. i just think he should be as involved with you guys as much as possible. you just don't know what kids think these days about their parents divorcing and remarrying someone else and starting a "new" family. best of luck to you guys. i really enjoy the show!!!
Hi Dean
I just got through watching the finale and it was a tear jerker that is for sure. I am so very impressed to see that there is another man in this world that Loves their wife as much as you love yours and my husband loves me. I blogged to T about my simular situation with my mother and just wanted to share with you one thing. As hard as it may be to see T hurt when things like this happen PLEASE just hug her. Dont ever say I told you so. Those words cut like a knife. No matter what has happened in the past with that mother of hers she will ALWAYS want love and acceptance there is no explanation that will help you understand it is just a way of life for females like T and I in such desires to have a FAMILY that is not DISFUNCTIONAL. We are not strong like you men are in these ways and all I can say is "Thats what we have you for" My husband does not even try and understand where i come from but not having a functional family was very hard for me. I am 39 now with 3 teenagers and I have to say that it is pleasing to me to see how you 2 love and cherrish your children. I cant wait for next season and just keep loving her keep holding her and keep letting her know that no matter what has happened to her with her mom you will ALWAYS be there. Give her that shoulder to cry on let her get it out. It will pass she is a strong and beautiful woman and from what i can tell no one has to tell you how lucky you are you already say it enough on national TV. Thank you for being you and keep up the wonderful job you are doing racing and raising your children. You 2 are a HUGE inspiration to MANY people in this world more than you will ever know. Take care and stay strong.
SIncerely
Janine
Dean,
Keep being realistic with Tori. Her mom is not going to change. I have a mother like Candy. Perfection and control of our lives is everything to her. Tori will get stronger through her pain. Sometimes we just have to hurt our way to acceptance. Your love and gentleness will help fill the void but will never erase the loss she feels. With your dad, the alcoholic, there was a subtance to blame for the unacceptable behavior. After reading both of Tori's books and Candy's, I think her mother is addicted to image, status, power (CONTROL) and prestige. She doesn't want to accept the part of Tori that wants to be real and not plastic. You both are doing a great job of living without Candy's control. (the object of her money) You will all be better off for it. One thing I learned as I tried to win my mom's love, approval, acceptance....for the millionth time at 40 was this...my expectations of others are premeditated resentments that will only hurt me and my family. I finally let her go and was able to grieve. I swear it is easier to lose a parent to death than desertion, but it happens both ways sometimes. Stay strong, focused in the moment and keep telling Tori the truth. Your talk with her at the end of the party showed leadership and committment. Keep yor foot down when you must protect your family.
Dear Dean,
Love your show!! I don't watch much TV, nor will I go out of my way to commit to any show, but your show with Tori is my favorite!! You guys seem to have a great family unit full of love and happiness. God bless you and your family for that!!
You seem to be a very loving husband and father - Keep up the great work!! Tori and you are way too cute together!! I look forward to seeing more of you and your family.
By the way, LOVE the bike and your passion with riding. Be safe!!
Dean-I just want in saying that I really enjoyed seeing your sister and her husband/meeting them. Your sister definitely resembles your looks. Also I was going to tell Tori but just for emotional purposes that I think that having her uncle and his wife as well as your sister and her husband being family enough-unlike you I DEFINITELY DON'T support Candy'. I could've told her that she wouldn't show up. Unlike you I don't support her-candy that is.
Can't say that you didn't warn Tori ehh?? I'm so pissed at Candy I can't even see straight right now-don't tell Tori this but IMHO she's a real bitch for not showing up. Just my opinion-whatever you do do NOT show Tori this post ok??
Renate
ps just pissed off that she had no respect in showing up for her granddaughter as well as Liam's birthday-it's so shameful and inexcusable.
Dean, I just recently started to watch your show and I have to tell you that you remind me so much of my husband with the way you are with Tori. Your protectiveness, love, understanding, and support remind so much of my own husband who is in Afghanistan right now. Sometimes it is hard to remember how great we are with our crazy lives and through your show I am reminded and it renews my strength to carry on until he comes home to his own family. Thanks and god bless!
I dont know if you read this... but Dean-- Thanks for being such a wonderful dad and hubby. You are a wonderful human-being and many men should take lessons on how you treat a woman. Thank you! Thank you!
Dean-
Bless you and your family. Have lots of babies so Patsy can keep coming back. I see your side of the whole Tori's mom thing but you have to remember everyone deals with situations in a different way and women with their moms can be a very sensitive thing. Hopefully for Tori's and you sake things get resolved quickly. Good luck.
I meant love ur show! LOL..
Dean,
Hey ur a great guy! Tell T i said Hi, Happy Belated Birthday to Stella! Congrats on the Potty wtg Stella! Hi Liam! Hey i think its time for another baby! Stella is a year old now! lol and besides yours and t's babies are the cutest! so get to work man! love ya ur show and your family!
Dean,
I wish my husband gave me half the support that you give Tori. I am really glad that you apologized to her.
Dean,
You have a wonderful family, that is true. I love how you express yourself to Tori, when things bother you. I wish my husband supported me and expressed himself like you do. Always keep that communication going. I cried when Patsy left also, I hated to see her go. I love your show & look forward to more.
Dean-
I can't blame you for getting upset. You are just trying to protect your family. There is nothing wrong with that.
Dean,
Sent my first messages to Tori and Patsy after the last episode and wanted to send you a message too. Don't be too hard on yourself, you are a great husband and father and Tori knows that. She knows too your heart was in the right place. You are only human and you were right, the delivery just wasn't so good.
I can relate to Tori situation with her mother because I know from personal experience myself, but I understand your position too because my husband has been in your shoes.
If Tori is ever able to have a relationship with her mother or even if the relationship is with the children, I doubt you will ever be able to trust Candy. Just want you to know that's ok, old scars run deep and after what you've experienced with your own father as well as Tori's angst with her mother you would almost have to be superhuman. I hope Tori can understand that, you deserve to be understood too.
Today I have a somewhat relationship with my mother and a sister too, I had to learn to accept them as they are. But I don't always succeed and there are times they are still able to push my buttons and send me off track. Life is messy and some relationships are just not easy.
Thank God for my husband who's always there to catch me when I fall. It's not easy for him but he doesn't try to dissuade me from trying to have a relationship with them. I realize though no matter how well my relationship with them is going he will never be able to trust either of them. He'll always be waiting for one of them to pull the rug out from under me so he can be there to catch me. Understanding and realizing his feelings has made me stronger in dealing with those other relationships.
I hope Tori can realize that though it's her mother it effects you too, which makes it your problem too. It's one thing to allow her mother to upset her but when it upsets you and the children too, it's gone too far. She needs to let it go and go on, you and the kids are just simply more important than her mother. You were so right about the fact that whether Candy showed or not Tori wasn't going to be able to enjoy the party. It's so sad that Tori chose to give her mother that power. It is a choice, Tori said herself (NO ONE CAN HURT YOU UNLESS YOU LET THEM).
Be strong, but don't be too hard on yourself, you are a great husband and father, but you are human too.
Good luck and best wishes to you and your family, thanks for letting us in. SO, SO sorry to see Patsy go.
Dean,
I know were you are coming from when it comes to letting family go. I am 34 yrs old and I had to let my dad go, he to was an alchololic and drug addict. I have a 5 year little girl who on one had can count how many times my dad has seen her, and his excuse is I don't have time or it works both ways the phone. He has his own family now and I have not talked to him in over a year. I was like Tori and tried to make things right and was always the one to give in and make the first call or visit. NO MORE!!! I have my family, a loving wife with a beautiful daughter to take care of and it is his lost. You are the coolest homie and I look forward to the next season.
Dean,
I cant tell you how proud I am of both you and Tori (and of course Monkey and Buggey) I know, you must be thinking....how can a complete stranger be so proud. Im the kind of person who wants the best for people. I just look at you two; hope for the very best and wish you all the happiness in the world. In addition, you both remind me of my husband and I...in sooo many ways. He would have responded exactly the way you did when Mommy Dearest didnt show..and yes, he would have apologized for being a little harsh afterward too:). I also want to thank you for representing all of the hands on very invovled Daddies in the world! My husband is equally involved in everything we do from mindless housework to more important things like taking care of our two boys (3 and 1/2 Sebastian and a 6 month old Koleman). I sadly have friends who's husbands have very little to do with their own children and they put their friends or hobbies first. I do believe that hobbies need to still be on the list.....but not above what's most important, family!~ I really think that you and Tori make conscious efforts to co-parent and it helps when you are madly in love with your gorgeous wife and she feels the same way:)! After being with my husband for over 7 and 1/2 years we still grope each other every day and cant wait to see each other...I only dreamt of a love like this and I've been telling my friends that it does...now you two get to show everyone in the world living proof each week. I will always wish the very best for you and your wonderful family! Enjoy your time together in between filming for next season and know that your family has so many who will always continue to love and support you!
Cheers!
Jenn from Maine
I just started watching your show about 6 months ago. I am a widow with 2 boys and your show gives me comfort in the fact that you both seem so real in the different life of Hollywood. You and Tori work hard on family and your relationship with each other. My husband died 10 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't miss him. I tell my married friends make the most of each day because tommorrow might change your life forever. I cried for her on the show last night- I understand her pain. You guys keep doing what you're doin and things will be good. God bless you and your kids - Liam's shuffle is hilarious.
Lu
Congratulations Papa D ~
Your life is perfect and getting better! I think the success of the family gathering will be the impetus for all of your Canadian family to gather with Tori's relatives and extended family very soon.
Patsy will always be a relative but she has other obligations she must oversee. I'm a parenting educator, professional teacher, Mom (grown sons), and a nanny. I'm looking to move to L.A. as soon two (maybe three) of my sons will reside in that area. So, if you want my resume and desire a "Pasty like" family facilitator, go for it.
You actually have millions of family members due to the fact that your life is in our homes. Watching Liam flirt with the fairy dancers was hysterical. What a guy!
Cheers,
Nanny Sigi
I just wanted you guys to know that I appreciate you letting the world into your lives. When I watch the two of you, it reminds me of my husband and myself. He is the manly man and I am the sensitive, girly girl. I always anticapte the next season to come. I am sorry for the "momma drama"-You can tell that she is spiteful and jealous-just from some of the interviews I had seen her on. She tries so hard to play the victim. Tori has handled everything very well nad she should have zero regrets about anything. She has been the one reaching out and getting nothing in return. Shame on her mother for treating her daughter like that. As long as you two stand by each other and keep on keepin on'-you'll be golden! Congrats! on your beautiful family and at how far you've come!!
Tori & Dean:
I watched the finale last night and was not surprised that your mother did not show up. Tori you have tried to open the door many times but your mother refuses to walk thru it. You both have issues with eachother but the children are innocent and should not be involed in the problem, they are her grandchildren. Someday she will realize what she has missed but it will be too late and she will only have herself to blame. You both are doing a wonderful job with your adorable children and are teaching them what love is and they will carry this love onto their children and your grandchildren.
i bet t's not gonna teach her to drive!
hmmm how sad... roxy dosent know about real love. we had a dog named roxy when i was a kid... she was a bitch too...he has a job you moron, its called a actor... havent u been watching? or do u just spend all your time hating on blogs? hag-he was gone for 5 friggin weeks... and apparently you havent been paying attention, the rumor is dwts... which is a massive commitment... sorry deano, i dont like people pickin on people i like, and considering u r in my home for an hour every week- i kinda like u and your wife. ok- i adore u & T. Big kiss & hugs!- Lulu.
Hey, Dean -- When I was in the same situation Tori is with her mom, the one thing that someone told me that made me completely cut off my relationship with my mother was, "Don't look at your mom as your mother. Look at her as a person. If a person like her came into your life, would you be friends with her? Would you allow her in your life (in your kids' lives)?" After thinking about my mother as a person, not as a mom, I realized that I did not want a person like that in my life and I ended the relationship. Looking back, I've never regretted that decision. Hope that helps.
Dean,
You're a great man, you are a wonderful supporter! My husband now thinks it's okay to be emotionally and physically supportive because of you! He sees that it really does make a different when a husband is always on the side of his wife and acts a protector and wonderful father. Not that he hasn't been, but you made him realize to push it out more. Thanks for that...hope you had fun on vacation! Great pictures too. Have fun on Saturday at the Ride for Autism and keep me updated on Twit.
Xoxo,
Jenny
I agree with Dean's take on Candy tonight. Tori, send your Mom an email, a certified letter, whichever informing her that she is forever welcome in your home to see ehr grandchildren. With OR without the cameras. But as far as getting anymore correspondence from you or any more invitations- you are done. She knows where the children live. Whatever he choice - it was hers to make. End of story and stress. You have opened the door forever - it is up to her to breach it - and only her fault if she never does. Where is your brother Randy in all this? I sure hope he is not choosing sides...would be a shame. Good luck!
Dean, I make my boyfriend/future hubby watch the show and point out everything you do that I think he should do. It sounds mean and like I'm trying to "make" him do things but it is running joke with us. I'm glad to know that there are men like you out there. I'm extremely happy with my relationship and hope that we continue to be this way just as you and Tori have done. I love Tori and wish you all nothing but the absolute best!! Patsy will be missed by everyone who has grown to love her.
Dean, I make my boyfriend/future hubby watch the show and point out everything you do that I think he should do. It sounds mean and like I'm trying to "make" him do things but it is running joke with us. I'm glad to know that there are men like you out there. I'm extremely happy with my relationship and hope that we continue to be this way just as you and Tori have done. I love Tori and wish you all nothing but the absolute best!! Patsy will be missed by everyone who has grown to love her.
Dean, You are the luckiest man I know! You have the most beautiful wife and children anyone could ever ask for! Keep up the good work as a supportive husband and a GREAT daddy!
DEano-I also will miss her so get busy by all means and have another one ok?
REnate
Just finished watching the season finale and adding a comment to T's blog. I have to say that you are a fantastic husband and extremely supportive. It was very obvious to my husband and I (I have recently been able to get him to watch the show with me & you are very similar in many ways...were from ND so that helps, aye?) how hurt you were for your wife. We have been through and still continue to go through many of these same issues with our family. We no longer allow or ask for them to happen, but sometimes no matter how hard we try they still manage to get their digs in. I really appreciated your apology to her because you very eloquently stated exactly why it was that you got upset. As I stated in T's blog comment, we finally asked ourselves, "would we allow anyone else to treat us this way or act this way in our house or around our children?" When the answer was 'no', it was easier to let go. We tried for a long time to do it for the kids also, but when Mom and Dad are getting hurt, it didn't take long for our kids to ask why grandma and grandpa were so mean to us. So, it is not always the best thing to do it for the kids. I am sure you two will come to the best decision for the both of you. In the meantime, we will miss any new shows and will anxiously await the next season of Tori and Dean. Best of luck with all that comes your way. We get a kick out of your "love" for your wife. From a female, she loves every minute of it and would miss it if it stopped even if she does giggle or shrug you off. You guys are the best!
Are you kidding me? What about your "other" family, the one you left? I bet you said the same things about those people until you got a meal ticket.
I love Tori but think you are riding on her coattails. Go to work and quit being such a horndog. No one really cares for your innuendos and it only cheapens people's opinions of you and your wife.
You are blessed to have 2 beautiful children from this union, but it's time to really go to work now, whatever that might be. I can see why Candy would stay away ... from you Sorry dude
Tori, I love your jeans! What brand are they?? Dean, I really liked your comments to Tori about wishing that your mother who is unable to come and meet her grandchildren is someone you wish for. It was a tender moment. Candy is wasting opportunities to know her grandchildren and see her own daughter shine as a mom and it is sad.
Me and my girlfriend r sitting here after taking finals for Nursing school and getting our Tori and Dean fix! You guys r awesome! Keep it up! Dean, you r a role model of what a good man should be and Tori you r amazing how you deal with everything! You r an inspirational super mom! Keep it up you guys! We love growing with you!
My wife and I are in the same situation that you and Tori are. There comes a point when you have to say, "I will not allow you to hurt my spouse or my children."
If Tori's mother decided to be a part of your life, she would never give any of you the love Tori is looking for. We have been so much happier since we accepted the fact that we're never going to have the parents we hoped for. There is no more fighting, no more stress, no more tears or heartbreak. We're happy just loving each other and being a family without them.
We can't let them hurt our son anymore. He doesn't need to know that pain.
You gave Tori great advice, we hope she takes it.
Love the show!