Glad Tori has such a great friend but the reason Candy doesn't want to do anything w/her daughter is be/c she married a golddigger and Candy can see that. Who sleeps w/you the first night and then professes that you are their soulmate when you have a wife and 2 kids waiting at home. talk some sense in your friend and believe the rumors that Dean is in it for the fame and money. He was a nobody be/f Tori. Can you say K-fed? Tori is so insecure to believe he saw nothing but a good lay and dollar signs that day he meet her.

I really am looking for a shirt Tori had on (white, red & blue sleeve embroidery) you & her were having a convo in the kitchen about her mom. Can you find out who it's by or where to get it? xoxo P
BTW, I'd love to have you as a BFF .. you rock !!

Mehran,

All I can say is THANK GOD for you and your relationship with Tori, and where the hell were you when all this Candy drama was going on?...Oh yeah, Europe!
I was really not happy with everyone's take on the Candy situation, and it was a huge relief when you walked in halfway through the episode. You truly understand this delicate situation, and of everyone involved (and they're all great), you have the best balance and approach to this situation.
This reunion is not and should not be in front of the cameras. Honestly, the first meeting should be Tori and Candy...that's it, no distractions, no influences, just them.
I was disappointed to learn we were at the end of the season, but look forward to many more...and I hope you are around even more next season!

Salam Agha Mehran!

Man show eh Tori Dean o hameesheh tamasha meekonam, vah khailey khoshal am keh shoma Irani hastee. Doost eh khailey khoob eh Tori hastee. Good job! I am a fan of yours! Khailey khoshal meesham agheh shoma e-mail beferestee barayeh man. Mercy!

Melody

Mehran,
Congratulations on Little Maven and the jewlery line, I have some business proposition for you. Please contact me to show you something that I think would go together very well with your line and will be very successful.

You seem like a really good friend to Tori & Dean.. And you appear kindly. I agree with you re; Tori's mother. you understand both sides. I myself can see Candy's point and Tori's too. I hope they mend their differences. So Tori's children can have a grandmother, and I hope Tori and her brother Randy are friendly he's her children's uncle. She very seldom mentions him.

hello...so i'm wathching a marathon and just wanted to commend you for being such a great friend...totally agree with you and the mom relationship...some things are best done behind the camera....why don't you get her to set up a day in neutral ground...like your home...you can be the hostess with the mostess...those two need to hug and kiss...no words...and then enjoy the children..anyway...good luck...ps...say hello to tori for me...

It is good to have friends to depend on when you come from a dysfunctional family. Please have Tori read up on NPD. I hope it can help heal herself and not have expectations of her mother.

You are awesome. I love how you say things like they are. Being honest may hurt sometimes, but it's better than being fake. And you are so not fake. You are a REALLY good friend! Keep up the great work and be safe on your travels!
Take Care

Mehren,
Tori and Dean are lucky to have you as a friend. You are a class act. You are reliable, intelligent, caring, considerate, and nice looking.
You have been there for the McDermotts from the beginning. You always look like you are having such a good time when you are with them. It seems like they are part of your family, too. I am glad your mom could go to Stella's party. But I do think Stella will like the goodies you brought her from Europe.
Stay true to yourself and the McDermotts. You are the best.

I love the show I wished that i culod find your clothing line here in nebraska with 5 grand kids i would love to get some mathcing outfits for a group picture

Tori,

You need to ask your Mother to a private Lunch or dinner with her fanmily. Or a private lunch with you and your Mom. Going to a b'day party that would be on TV may be way too much for a strained relationship. Try baby steps with your Mom Tori and you will hopefully grow together again and be a family! Maybe just take the kids to her house?
Nobody can turn down grandbabies :)

its me again grandma...Tori you did the right thing in inviting your mother. Again her big loss. I don't know how she can ignore both the children. They are adorable

Agreed!! I think you are such a hottie and amazing and funny!! From a straight girl!!! What's the term for that crush?? jk

Can't you convince Tori to meet with her mom without the camera's. I sense she really has anxiety about it. Hugs. love the show.

Mehran, you are a truly amazing friend to Tori & Dean! We should all be so lucky to have a Mehran of our own. You are articulate, honest (but with great compassion when the honesty is tough love), insightful and intelligent. You're a great counter-balance to Tori & her penchant for over emotionalizing everything. She & Dean are sweet sweet parents, but I hope you can help them see a couple of realities: Dean needs to stop with the potty mouth and crass comments in front of the kids, pure & simple. And Tori needs to remember her kids are watching how she handles life, and does she really want them to grow up reacting in the same often neurotic, tearful and fearful ways that she does to what life hands them? They need to see her meet her life challenges with a more calm, rational demeanor. I wish you all the very best!

Mr. M, I am one of Tori and Dean's biggest fans, but I can certainly understand why Candy Spelling would not want to come to Stellas Bday. Some people just dont like being filmed and Tori already knows this about her mom. Why cant Tori just invite her to come see the baby's without all the lights. camera, action??? The solution is very very simple. Gina

Hi M-man~

Tori is brave and knew the chance she was taking with the invitation to the absent grandma. All in all, it was right to offer Candy an opportunity to reconnect. I would think that Grandma should overcome her camera fear or jump to the sky or walk ten thousand miles to be able to be with her grandchildren. I just can't imagine any excuse, other than total debilitation, that would suffice for her avoidance of those kids.

I'm looking forward to see what comes of your exposure to European Toddler Designs. Stella was a fairy tale princess in her outfit with ruby slippers. Maybe you could create a 'dive in the birthday cake' ensemble based on how the outfit looked after the fact. LOL
Cheers,

Nanny Sigi

it's so great when u have a friend u have known so long who just "gets" u.there's nothing better than not having to explain yourself to someone or them questioning why u r the way u r.it's obvious u and t have that connection and it's such a beautiful thing to watch.all the best mehi!

tori your mom, does not know what she is missing.
just fallow your heart,and love your lovely family.may god bless you.

I agree with Dean's take on Candy tonight. Tori, send your Mom an email, a certified letter, whichever informing her that she is forever welcome in your home to see ehr grandchildren. With OR without the cameras. But as far as getting anymore correspondence from you or any more invitations- you are done. She knows where the children live. Whatever he choice - it was hers to make. End of story and stress. You have opened the door forever - it is up to her to breach it - and only her fault if she never does. Good luck!

Mehi?!?! Are you trying to say that Tori is pregnant ;) Well, I hope so! Her and Dean have created a beautiful family and are surrounded with loving friends. "Friends are the family we choose." More babies will only bring more happiness.

X<3
Amanda (Wife to my soulmate, who has made me a mama to 3 beautiful baby girls (and hopefully more!) Also, I haven't had a relationship with my parents in YEARS - not bragging, but these things do happen and even though it's hard to swallow, it may be in the best interest of our babies.)