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I feel for you with this situation Tori. I agree with you though - you CANNOT be the reason he quits. I think you're doing the right things - writing about it, talking about it with your friends, and at the same time, supporting him in his dream. You've got a good head on your shoulders - I say follow your instincts!

i was wondering on the show when liam is going to school what brand of sippy cup is he useing and where did u buy it from because i would like to buy one for my son

GURL! I loooooove your show!!! i watch it every tuesday night..never miss a beat! You are such a great mother & wife! And of course you love us gays! Love u much! Kisses!

Johnathan

GURL! I loooooove your show!!! i watch it every tuesday night..never miss a beat! You are such a great mother & wife! And of course you love us gays! Love u much! Kisses!

Congratulations to Dean, Tori, Liam, and Stella for defeating the odds of celebrity gossip and making the most of life with or without the cameras. I love taking in a cup of joe and watching your family (plus Patsy) every week on Oxygen. In a life full of ups and downs I can always count on a little laughter when I watch. I can even get my husband to watch with no problem-he's always on Deano's side-fast bikes and sex-and I always take T's side-shopping, my gays, and I can't leave home without my Blackberry! We can relate so much to you as a family-you and Dean compliment one another so well-having our husbands in our lives is a balance we've never known before. Keep up the great work as a mother, wife, and a friend. Your family is truly an inspiration to other couples everywhere no matter what you think. Keep on keeping it real Torizzle!

Muah, Muah!

Tori,
Thanks for sTORI Telling! Read the entire thing on Sunday..every page in 1 day! It was great how I could hear your voice in my head as I was reading..sign of an excellent writer! Going to get Mommywood today! Your family is an inspiration for mine...we strive to be close like u and dean! Much Love and Admiration!

Tori~ I can totally relate. My husband has had a passion for pit bulls and pit bull bredding. I don't particularly like it nor does his family. I love pit bulls and feel sorry that they have a bad rap because they are a sweet and loyal breed. I do though hate that it consumes his time outside of work. With so many dogs now too it takes over our back yard but he loves it. It is good for his soul he says and a great way to de-stress. I can't imagine after all the work he does at work, he would want to come home to shovel poop and have tons of dogs all jumping on him for attention. I wish we had only one to three dogs but we have more than that. All of his family and my family wished he has another hobby but what can you do when they love it and say they have to have it. I commend Dean though for thinking of you and the family. It sparked a great conversation betwen me and my husband about husband hobbies and family... and when the two do not blend well. So thanks. You guys are truly great parents and a great couple! We enjoy watching you every week!

Tori,
anyone that takes the time to go online onto this site and takes even more time to send mean and nasty comments and messages, is a really jealous and miserable person!!! this person has nothing better to do than to TRY to make other people who actually have a life and something going for them feel bad and upset. every time you get negative comments and messages, look into the babies eyes and realize that everything you do is all for their best and they and your husband are the only people you need to please in this world, ok??? take care and stay positive in all you do!!!!

Hey tory how are you. I think your show is great because I am a stay at home mom and you really are just a normal chill mom to. I admire the fact that you and your husband work so hard to make time for family and provide for your children. I am not really into all the gossip and stuff so I can only imagine being a mommy in the spotlight is so hard. YOu are really good at handling all of that, I can't even tolerate the gossip in my son's silly playgroup! HA . I watched the episode though where your mom's book came out, and I just wanted you to let you know that you handled yourself so well. I can't imagine all the stress and frustration. I have a really rocky relationship with my mother to. I really feel for you and hope that someday you guys can mend all the bad feelings between you. I really wish you guys all the success and happeniness in the world and from what I have seen you are a wonderful mother, friend and wife. Take care, and wish you the best.

kate

For crying out loud people!! seriously WTF!!! why is it necessary to fill up peoples blog with your ugly a$$ comments??!!! GET A F&*!ING LIFE!! stop hating people for one that you don't even know and for two who's life you have absolutely no idea what it is like. Imagine how you would feel to have absolutely no privacy what so ever, I mean granted that is the life of an actor/actress, but that is just a job like everyone else in this world has. And as a bonus we get to have some enjoyment out of what they create. Grow the F@#$ up people and leave them the HELL alone!!!

Stella is sooooooooo beautiful!! Im 22 and really almost always said id never want kids. And to be honest after following you Tori on your show after all these years and seeing you with your family and how honest and sincere and rewarding it is, its completley changed my point of view.

To be truthful i want exactly what you have. An adoring, handsome caring husband and two beautiful children. Your really lucky and deserve every second of it. I'm so glad you can finally be at peace in life after all you've experienced with not fitting in with your own family. I love the show sooo much! I've bought both your books and couldnt put them down! I respect you so much, As a celebrity and as a person. You have amazing spirit. Im sure the world is so proud of you and all you've achieved, Congradulations girl ;)

Tori i know there are some very harsh people leaving blogs and it must hurt but don't listen to what they say because you are a very beautiful lady and you have a great family and wonderful friends. The people who say all those harsh things are just jealous because they really want to be you...LOL Not everybody is perfect and we lll make mistakes in life and we also make mistakes in raising our children. You learn from those things and we move on. My daughter and myself watch your show faithfully she loves you and your show. She wanted me to tell you that she loves Liam and little Stella she thinks they are the prettiest babies and she would love to meet you. Her 16 birthday is Feb and i ask her what she wanted and she said she wanted to meet you. Keep your head up and know that there are people that really appreciate your show. You give us all a little insight on how people in hollywood have just as normal lives as we do they just make more money than we do..LOL We love your show and hope to see lots more. You and your family are in our prayers for a fantastic and happy future.

TORI, I LOVE YOUR SHOW DEAN YOUR THE MAN FOR MAKING THAT GOOD CHOICE TO GET RID OF YOUR BIKES YOU CAN TELL THAT WAS HARD TO GET RID OF THEM CAUSE THAT WAS SOMETHING YOU LOVED TO DO BUT YOU ALSO KNEW HOW MUCH IT BOTHERED TORI AND YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY SELLING THEM I GIVE YOU PROPS MAN YOUR FAMILY IS AWSOME I CANT WAIT TO HAVE KIDS YOU GUYS TEACH ME SOME THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO PARENTING YOU GUYS ARE GOOD PARENTS KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOIN BOTH ME AND MY BOYFRIEND LOVE YOUR SHOW SO KEEP DOIN IT YOUR KIDS ARE SOO CUTE I LOVE YOUR FAMILY.SAY HELLO TO PATSY AND FRIENDS BYE LUV JENNI B

Tori!!!! My boyfriend and I watch your show EVERY week and have been hooked. Although my bf and I are not married, The characteristics you and Dean have with each other remind my bf and I of each other of our relationship. I have also read both of your books in the same week, I just could NOT put them down. All of your stories were such great reads and was able to relate so much to sTori Telling! Please please say that you have a 3rd book coming !!! Your stories are the best and would love to have another to read. Thanks for opening your life to all of us, you are a wonderful person and deserve all the best. You and your family are absolutely stunning. Thanks for opening your life to us!!

Wow, It has to be tough reading such harsh comments not only about you, but about your son and family! I guess you take the good with the bad in your business. I hated reading the harsh things, but I guess its what drives you, I hope. I hope this positive note helps...I enjoy your series and can say I wasn't a big 90210 fan and thought, like most people, that you were a spoiled little rich kid who needed her dad to get ahead. But who of us wouldn't take advantage of the same situation if 1 of our parents were in the same position. It kinda sounds trivial to have thought that at all now. The series really showed me a different "Tori Spelling" than what I thought I "knew" on 90210, like any of us can really know you through a TV screen(lol). Like you would even read this blog...bu if you do I hope it helps get through themore harsh opinions. I really enjoyed reading your books and could relate to some of your pains. Keep rocking it and thanks for sharing your life, its easy to see how a teacher in SC has some things in common with a star such as yourself....you also remind me of someone I would gladly call "friend". So thanks for the entertainment and laughs....oh, can I request the song to be back in the show, maybe as a closer? I thought the song was super cute...I sing it to my nephew who is Liam's age and he loves it! He bops around when I sing it to him. "Look how far we've come after all..." You have Mrs. Spelling, thanks for sharing your crazy; yet, so mornal life with us! Also,I think beauty comes in all forms...At least that's what Tyra Banks says and I think she, of anyone, knows beauty. As an ex model myself I think you have beauty inside and out.

I love Mommywood it is soooo funny!! The part about the swim diaper experiance I really understand!! Also your explaination of poop up the puss!! You are such a great mother and your kids will realize that once they are old enough.

TORI, I JUST WANNA SAY,YOU ARE ABOUT THE UGLIEST BITCH I HAVE EVER SEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IS THAT YOU'RE FACE,OR DID YOUR NECK THROW UP? ALL THE MAKE-UP IN THE WORLD CAN'T HIDE PURE DAMN UGLY!!!!! THANK GOD STELLA TOOK AFTER DEAN,SHE MIGHT HAVE SOME HOPE OF NOT LOOKING LIKE A #&@% ING MONKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JENNIE GARTH IS WHAT YOU CALL GORGEOUS,& OH YEAH, DEANS EX-WIFE!!!YOU DONT HOLD A CANDLE TO HER,WHAT THE HELL DEAN WAS THINKING,I'LL NEVER KNOW,OR UNDERSTAND,BUT THATS HIS F--K UP,IM SURE HE'LL REGRET IT ONE DAY!!!!

Hi Tori. I just want to say thanks for opening your life to all of us! You and your family can always put a smile on my face. With me having 4 kids I can relate to a lot of the things you deal with. You are so funny and I enjoy watching your show whenever I get a chance to. The kids are beautiful and you and Dean are great parents! Take care!

Hi Tori. Let me just start off by saying I've never watched a 90210 episode nor did I know anything about you other than the gossip that gets spread around on various entertainment channels or magazines, but oddly enough I had formed a preconceived opinion of you as not being a huge fan as I'm sure many people have. I'm happy to say that that all changed one evening when I was flipping through cable channels and came across your "Tori & Dean" show on Oxygen. I found you to be a very likable person who is caring, generous, intelligent and has a great comedic side. You're just a young woman who is trying as much as she possibly can to be "normal" in a not so normal industry. In watching the show I found myself relating to so many things that you experienced, from losing my father to having a not so great relationship with my mother, trying to get to know/have friendships with my neighbors, funny, touching & embarrassing moments my husband and I have experienced raising our 3 yr old son, I also design jewelry and I also worry about worrying when it comes to my family and loved ones. It's good to know that I'm not the only one feeling and saying some of the crazy things that come out of my mouth and bless my dear husband for having to put up with me some days. I wanted to say that after watching your show which lead me to completing both of your books, I'm happy to say that I'm so glad I've changed my mind. I really enjoyed your story telling and appreciate your bravery in sharing with the world not only your funny and embarrassing moments, but very personal and hurtful experiences as well. I wish you nothing but the best for you and your family and I sincerely hope that you may one day find a way to "heal" from all the trials and tribulations between you and your mother. My relationship with my mother had changed for the better, but unfortunately it took the passing of my father in order for it to take place. I have to be honest that it's not a perfect relationship between the two of us, but it is an improvement and I really don't know if I'll ever trust my mother enough to completely let her into my life and my son's, but I totally understand the need for always having hope that it will continue to get better and how I can't completely shut her out no matter how much bad water under the bridge we had between us so I understand your same feelings of not being able to give up on your mom totally. With mine, I just hope it's not going to be too late where she becomes sick as she gets older and we'll have even less time to make up for. With yours it's so much harder because the media/public gets involved. I wish you both well in making a mends if it can happen. I have recommended both your books to several friends and to a few total strangers who happened to notice me reading your books and have stopped me to asked how I like them.

As a result of reading both your books and watching your show, I've gained a lot of respect for you especially how hard you work and how you have proven in your everyday work ethics, that you are very talented and you do not expect special treatment just because you are your father's daughter. You are a very deeply caring person who is constantly striving (to almost the brink of exhaustion) to make sure your children experience a loving and supportive environment to grow up in. Thank you so much for letting the whole world come along for the ride with you and your beautiful family. I wish you and Dean many more blessings and a lifetime filled with lots of love and huge belly laughs. Stay strong girl.

I have enjoyed watching your show. I have been a fan since the beginning. I have a son who is 2 and a daughter 9 months. It was so funny to watch you have the same fears as me during both pregnancies. I also was hooked because I could relate to some of what was happening in your show, for we were experiencing some of the same things. I had to have C section too. It sucked. Was scared out of my mind, too. It gave me great relief to know I wasnt alone and not crazy. My heart goes out to you about your relationship with your mom. My parents arent in our lives either. I think I got over the initial hurt, a while ago. Having close friends and extended family fills the gap. Having wonderful grandparents myself makes me fill saddness for the kids, but thats why we are all going to be the best parents we can be, to make up for non existant grandparents. I think its highly admirable that Dean gave up motorcycling. My husband loves them, and I am totally against it too. For all the same reasons. He has other hobbies such as basketball, softball that keep him occupied. Maybe Dean can channel something less dangerous as a hobbie.

Hi Tori!
I just wanted to tell you that I love the show! I am a mother of 3 children, 16, 14 and 6! I am also married to a great man. I am 32 years old. Yeah, I had my daughter at 16! It's funny to think about because while I was pregnant with her I was watching you and the gang on 90210! I admired your character on the show. Donna was such a good girl! Anyway, I just wanted to tell you how much I admire you as a person, mother and actress! You give 100% to everything you do! You always think of others first! It just surprises me how normal you and Dean really are! I would love to be able to meet you just once! Anyway, keep doing what you are doing! You give all other moms something that they can look forward to on Tuesday night! I loved Storytelling! I am looking forward to reading Mommywood! Don't worry 2 much about Liam's little fits, all children have them! I am the director of a daycare and we have children from ages 6 weeks to 12 years! You and Dean are both great parents! One more thing, you and Stella will have a WONDERFUL relationship because you are a wonderful mom and you love you children with all you have! Stella and Liam are both very lucky to have you as a mom!Ignore all the people who talk s--- about you! Ignore all the nasty comments about your weight and all that crap! Oh, last thing I thought the chick at the farmers market on Tuesday July 7th was so funny! I am not sure if i would have been that nice to her for that long! Can't wait to see Tuesays show!

BOOKS!!!! Give me more books girl. PUTP was great. I have a 18m/o so I know. So funny. And im truly sorry about your fourth of July cake. Lol. And by the way that creepy fan I just saw last week. Akward!!!! HA! Well your great your family is great and we love you. You are more down to earth and NORMAL then alot of people I know and I dont know anyone famous.

Hey Tori & Dean,

Gotta to tell you, I love watching your show. Not because of your celebrity but because you two closely resemble my partner and myself. Our beginnings are similar to yours, the way we act and talk, it was a little like watching ourselves on TV (kind of spooky, really)
We also have a two year old who is two weeks younger than Liam (Who is a cutie btw as is Stella) and can totally relate to the stalling techniques, the melt downs, but the hugs and kisses totally make up for it!
Look forward to the rest of the season!

Tori,
I'm a huge fan of both your show and your jewelry. In the episode with the Potty Dance, is the gold necklace you were wearing with that green dress still available to purchase? Please let me know cause I'm dying to buy it!!!! Keep up the great work as both a mom and a very down-to-earth celebrity!!

Dawn

Hi Tori,
I posted something on Dean's blog that I hope you will get a chance to read. I think that you and Dean are such an amazing couple. DO NOT let these rude comments gets to you. You are a loving wife, mother and friend. Your WILL have the closeness with Liam and Stella that you want. I know how much it hurts that your mother is not close to you and your children. I am 63 years old & I lost my mother when I was 25. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her. But unnfortunately life goes on. You have shown the world that you are an accomplished actress, businessperson and author. You have also shown them that your family is your priority. How wonderful is it for you to have a man like Dean, love and worship you, children who love you and friends that are there for you. You have a wonderful life and a wonderful future ahead of you, God Bless..By the way, you were are right about Dean quitting the bikes. Your heart would break if anything ever happened to him.
God Bless you Tori, Dean, Liam, and Stella.

Tori I love your show. Dean seems like agreat husband. Don't worry those no's will go away......but they come back.

Tori i understand that you dont want to be a mean mom .But please be more disipline. When liam acts out dont just stand their say liam that is not right. You dont have to yell just tell him calmly.

Tori i dont know what happened between you and your mom so i would appreciate it if your next blog was about that

tori i know you feel bad about dean i can tell when you look him in the eye. but i dont know if you know this but i watch your shows and dean gave up motorcycling for you. that means he is a good husband and you are truly blessed. i hope you keep doing the show i would love to see you guys grow as a family !

Tori, as far as celebrities go, there are very few that I'd say are grounded and real but you definitely are. You're the kind of person that any mother would be proud of and yet your mother is keeping herself from you. I wish you could have a mother like mine, who is a little overbearing, but she's a mom, that's her job. I hope the two of you can somehow mend the rift between you and then maybe your kids can know the joy of having a grandmother. They are really missing out because of her. Anyway, I really love your show and watch faithfully. My birthday was the 8th, and my gift was your books, which I can't wait to start reading! Keep up the good work and take care of that beautiful family of your!

Tori, please turn off the DVD when Liam is enjoying his meal. If you can't have a "family dinner" don't use a DVD that distracts him from the joy of eating. This is one sure way to lead him to some type of eating dysfunction later in life. Also, I'm not so thrilled with sending him off to school at 2. At that age he needs to be with YOU, not other kids and care givers.
I love the show and think you guys are great people and parents. I've read both your books and look forward to the next Keep up the good work!

Hi Tori and Dean,

Gotta give you both props on making this show better every year. I just wish there was like a Big Brother After Dark for your show to see a lil fly on the wall stuff! Haha...kidding...Anyways, I don't understand how you guys do everything you do and still make time for each other PLUS raise those kiddies...Freaking cool as hell. Tell Dean if he decides to give up racing, has he ever thought of kickboxing?? It takes the edge off and you release tension and no fear of falling off. (And no, Tori, he won't get disfigured...really safe and padded! Keep on being the McDermotts (Did I just kill your last name??If so I apologize)! Take care and God Bless yall.

Tori! I LOVE watching your show. I laugh with you and cry with you. I can relate because I have little ones and a husband I adore. It's really great to share a peak at your lives. The family time and friends and even the spots where you visit each other on set. I love those behind the scenes. Best wishes to all of you. Never stop the show - I've turned many a friend on to your show. I just started watching last season but I already caught up on the old episodes. You guys are great! Take care.

Tori,

I just wanted to say that I have enjoyed your show. I think you are an amazing mother. I'm sure that you and Stella will be very close. I wanted to comment on this last weeks episode and the wierd fan you encountered at the farmer's market. I think that you handled that very well. I think most celebrities would have been rude to her. I know that people say that that's the price you pay for being a celebrity. However, I really think that woman crossed the line. Just keep up everything you are doing.

Tara =)

Tori,

I have posted a blog comment under Dean's blog, and I hope that you get the chance to read it. I just want you to know, that I am grateful that you have changed my thoughts and opinions of you in so many different and positive ways.

I hope you can understand my blog post, as all I can say is "Thank-you" for making me believe and understand that dreams can come true.

Respectfully submitted,

Kennan F. Parish
Port Isabel, Texas

Tori -

What brand/shade is the red lipstick that you wear so often? Share the secret!

You are SO funny and what an amazing mother you are!!
You're the best!

Tori,

I am a huge fan. I pray you really are the one reading this. I need your help. I hate to even burden you. I honestly don't know what to do. My family is down to one income, and we've used up all of our resources. My husband works two jobs. He gets on average 4 hours of sleep a night. It's putting a huge toll on our marriage. We have been in Texas since Novemeber 2006, both of us were born and raised in California. We came here for the opportunity to own our own home, and we do, for how long, I don't know. I stay at home with my son, I worked a temp job all throughout my pregnancy. We can't afford for me to work, based on my skills. We have exhausted our savings, 401K, tax return, borrowing money from our parents, church. We can't get a loan from the bank, and what I am asking is something out of the norm.... could we possibly work out a loan with you? We can write it up and everything. I thank you for your time.
~Ashamed

Tori,
I'm not sure if you read these comments, but I wanted to let you know that I admire you! I can somewhat relate to your life in so many ways. I'm a young mother and wife. It's quite a long story, but I found out I was pregnant my Junior year of high school. I was always a good girl. I never partied, always made good grades. This was a total shock to my family and community. In result I had to get married. Although I have a 9 month old daughter, I'm returning to Russell High School for my Senior year. It's hard keeping a family together...especially being so young, but I'm on the honor roll at school and I'm applying for a full scholarship to college. My husband and I watch your show every week. I love it! Hopefully one day I will be successful like you and still have time for my children. You have many problems in your life, but you pull it together and go on for your family. I understand that completely now that I'm a mother. I'm not sure if my husband and I will stay together, due to many personal problems...but I just have to tell myself that everything will be okay. You are somewhat of a rolemodel for me! I look up to you for keeping your family together and making something of yourself. Like your little Stella, my daughter's nickname is Bug. She was also a ladybug for her first Halloween. Hehe.

love u guys and the show

Tori~ I enjoy the show soo much! You and Dean crack me up, you guys remind me of my hubby and I! I also have 2 babies, about the same ages as yours. I find it comforting to see you guys deal w/ many of the same dilemas we do, even though yours are always a little fancier! LOL I just want you to know I'm rooting for you guys! Though you have your ups and downs in life, as long as you continue to keep each other and your children as your #1 priority, you'll always be happy! You two have what matters most in life, a marriage filled with passion and love, and 2 beautiful healthy babies! You have truly been blessed, your daddy would be so proud of you for keeping your priorities in order!
~*Krystal*~

Tori,

I understand your fear, but I agree with some of the other readers. You can't force him to give it up, because he will resent you for it later.
He has to have something of his own, granted it's dangerous, but he will also have to decide on his own whether that's more important to him or his family.
Also if you do read these comments, I would love to talk(write) to you regarding the 7/7 episode regarding the majo and cu #&@% ber, the silly feud with Chelsey Handler, and your mother.
Not to worry, I'm not as strange as the woman at the Farmer's Market or a stalker, just a fan who'd like to share some insight.
Feel free to e-mail when available. Thank you

U guys have something special . I totally understandbout the
motorcycle fear however.... Everyonehas a time an date sweetie and u can change it . U sweetie have to work on ur
fears . God does not want us to b afraid but put ur fears aside and trust ki in him . Let him do his motorcycles. I don't
like them either but we'er not him I hope. U guys work it out.
I love horseback riding. I can't do it no place round here anymore. I feel so muc h better when I'm on a horse. Feel free anyway....live goes buy. So fast not to do the things u. Love would b a shame. Oh by the way I love the guncles , and Patsy. I love ur show :) stay in love keep comunicating
and live life . U guys r doing great ! Andhow come u guys never visit Michigan I would like my book signed Luv u guys!

Tori-I am a 39 y.o mom of a 21y.o., 20y.o., 17y.o. and 11 month old. I was reading through a few of the other posts and just wanted to say that you are a GREAT mom, Liam is a wonderful little boy who is clearly being raised by a very loving family!!! I didn't let my husband ride his bicycle to work until the kids were all over 14. Since then he has taken up riding again, (doing Centuries, 100 mile bike rides some of the riding is on interstate highways) and now we have our new little surprise. I don't think I'll be able to put that cat back in the bag, but I totally understand your anguish and worry for Dean and your family when he takes risks. Just keep talking it through. There may be a time when you feel more prepared to let Dean be a little risky.

Tori,

You are amazing. I feel like you relate to all people. I am from a very small town in Pennsylvania and when I watch your show, I feel like you could be one of my friends. I have never written a comment before but after watching your show I wanted to tell you how brave you are for putting your good and bad out there for everyone to judge. Your family is awesome and it so refreshing to see a celebrity always be polite to your fans. Thanks for sharing your private moments with us.

I am sorry but Liam needs a SERIOUS spanking. He runs the house and is (at least the show portrays him as such) always screaming, hitting and using the word 'NO!'. I cannot believe how much he gets away with. Don't get me wrong, I am a fan but I have to fast forward my DVR through about a third of the show b/c I just get sick of watching it. PLEASE CALL THE SUPERNANNY. This kid needs a lesson in manners, even for a 2 year old.

Tori:

I am a 59-year-old grandmother and I love your show and the love that you and Dean share for each other and your two beautiful children. Thank you for letting me come into your home every week to share your joys and sorrows. I just wanted to add my comment on Dean's motorcycle riding. I lost my husband two years ago. He also rode a motorcycle and I frequently rode on the back with him. I was never wild about biking and was always nervous about having a spill, but I knew that this was important to him, as he liked the element of danger. He even had an accident once and was in the hospital for a week with broken ribs and a punctured lung. That scared me even more, but I knew that if he didn't ride a bike he would cease to be the man I had fallen in love with, so I didn't complain when he got back on that bike. I didn't lose my husband to a motorcycle accident, Tori. I lost him to something that causes a long, lingering death, something that stole away the big strong healthy man that I knew and replaced him with a tired, sick shell of a man who when he died would not have been able to hold up a motorcycle. I lost him to cancer. My point is, when it is our time to die, I believe that we die, whether it is on a motorcycle or from natural causes. Dean loves his motorcyles. A person must have something that they enjoy--even if it is something that has a risk factor. There is a risk factor to getting up out of bed every morning. If Dean gives up his motorcycles, he is letting go of a passion, and over time he could become resentful that he gave it up because he felt that he had to. Just love him and let him be himself--a bit of a free spirit whose heart will always belong to his wife and children, but who can get his kicks from doing something that doesn't hurt anyone else.

that lady u saw at the farmer market was crazy

that lady u saw at the farmer market was crazy

Tori,
I just want to start off by saying that I love your show. I really thought you might come off as a rich little snob, but I'm happy to say you seem like the kindest, most gentle , caring person and a wonderful mother to your children and wife to your husband. But, I think you need to reconsider the motorcycle thing. Being the wife of a rider, I can honestly relate to how you are feeling. My heart hurts every time my husband takes to the streets and I always pray for a safe return. (so far so good) He has told me on many occasions that riding is a way for him to just forget about all the concerns of the workday or struggles with his friends and family. It is his time to go and just be with himself and clear his head. I felt for you last night when you told Dean "I hate that you do this" when pointing to the motorcycle, but know that it is an outlet for him. It is nothing malicious or defiant against you or the children, it is a tension reliever for him. You grow to become less anxious about each ride as time goes on, and I'm sure he is grateful to know that you love him and care for him that much to be concerned. I just think he needs his outlet. Oh by the way, I missed why he gave up scuba diving? My husband and I both participate in that hobby and I absolutely love it!! Thanks again. Take care :)

Hi! I am a stay at home Mom and have a wonderful husband too! My son will be 2 at the end of August and can't tell you how much the show has actually helped me. There have been so many episodes that I have watched with Liam and have said OH MY GOSH that is extactly my son. You have such a wonderful family and I have the up most respect for all that you do. You are not only a awesome Mom, wife, friend etc. but you are a person just like the rest of us with a different background. It is so weird sometimes when I am watching one of the shows and I am like Dean says or does something and its my husband all over. We are lucky girls (woman) to blessed with husbands who love us but really do pitch in and care. I hope this hasn't sounded creepy but it has been on my mind for sometime to just email you and let you know that not only LOVE THE SHOW but can relate to so much sometimes. Thank you!
Jen

You probably don't read these,but was watching the show last night(TIVO)and remebered meeting you when we were kids, about 30 yrs ago (dad worked for your dad for years). We were on the beach (Parker Stevenson show?) and sitting in directors chairs next to each other. You didn't say a word. I thought you were so spoiled. Now that we have grown up and I watch you I have to tell you that you seem like a great mom. I have a 2 year old (plus 2 others), a month or so older, so I really relate to what he is doing right now. You & Dean remind me of my relationship with my husband..."sometimes just too tired to argue". You guys are normal...Anyway just nice to see that you grew up a nice person. Looking back on it I bet you were shy, but because of who you were I took it another way. Good luck with all you endevers and hope you're enjoying the valley. I grew up there...it's hot!
Also if you ever need fabric come visit my families store...Michael Levine Fabrics in downtown LA....you have a great fashion sense and we would love to work with you!

Tori - I don't even know if you'll read this, but I'm going to try anyway!

My daughter has a rare syndrome - Aicardi Syndrome. (You can get information at www.aicardisydrome.org) When she was diagnosed at 4 months old, I was told not to expect her to live very long. She just celebrated her 11th birthday this past February.

July 9-11, 2010 the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation will be holding it bi-annual Family conference in Chicago, IL. I watch your show, have read your 1st book, am half-way through the second,and watched her on 90210, etc. Needless to say I am a huge fan. However, I am also an admirer of your skills of juggling such a busy career and being a good wife and mom. And WANTING to do and not let Patsy do it all.

Many of our mom's have to juggle careers, non-disabled siblings, doctors' appointments, etc. (For example, personally, I am a teacher, attending college working on my doctorate, being a soccer and volleyball mom to my 17 year old son, taking my daughter to various appts -she has 5 different doctors, and trying to find time for myself.)

I think that you would be an excellent role model to have at our "Mother's Tea" that weekend. The conference is actually an informational type conference with breakout sessions on different topics that affect our daughters (the syndrome only affects girls). However, next year we would like to have our first "Mother's Tea". I thought that YOU would be the perfect guest for that. The day of the weekend and time could revolve around your schedule - we would just be honored to have you.

Hey, Great show, and great family!!! But girl, you have to let Dean have a hobby. The whole Dean never gets to have a hobby thing is really selfish on your part. You are a good mom, but the thing that is going to make you loose Dean is YOU!! Anyway, I am not bashing you, just see it from a guys point of view. Dean seems like an awesome guy, he deserves to be one occasionally.

Hay Tori, i have 3 kids and one is 14 and a girl and the other is 4 .This is a challange for me , But when you go through a loss of one of your kids you realize that is is hard but that every day is a blessing and i see you love your kids but remember they love you no matter what they have that love in there eyes and the older they get the more you can see it and say hay i made that and i helped them get to where they are .They will test you but it is apart of being a mom. Some advice you can use is you never pay for your raise till you raise your own . in the context of the kids and my grandpa gave me that advice and i will hope it helps you when you are raiseing you beautiful son and daughter ..
I watched you on 90210 and we are the same age and you were a good person then and now and you will be a good mom . love your kids like you will never have a nother with them . My oldest had a hart condition and that is how for 14 years i have lived my first past away and that was hard ...
Enjoy what you have i have a husband of 16 years and i live every day as it is my last ..
Thanks for reading my story cynthia

Hi Tori

I just wanted to let u know that i love your show and i really think you have a beautiful family.. i love the way you guys communicate to each other.. i really think thats the key for a good relationship.. my blessings to you and your family your kids are beautiful.. im a big fan of you since you were in 90210.. i really would love to meet you one day.. good luck with everything..

I shot diet coke out of my nose when you said the banana in the puss thing! Hysterical. Love the show. Love the balance. Keep on keepin on:)

So I've been dwelling on commenting on your episode while Dean was away and how he wanted to have "dirty adult skype" and I found it oddly cute and (probably TMI but relatable) in that you still attempt to keep things hot and fresh with two kids and being away from each other. I know how it feels as do many other navy/military wives/fiances/girlfriends do to be apart from their man for so long. Your goodbyes reminded me of mine, Dean calling you "mama" (my babe calls me that too)is all so sweet to watch. Though he has been talking about taking on a motorcycle when he gets back I'm not too excited to have that discussion. I see that you genuinely cherish your family and I wish you, Dean, Monkey and Buggy all the happiness.

Hi Tori, I have to tell you that I have been hooked on the show ever since you started. I did want to tell you that the episode tonight did bring me to tears for Bill and Scout when they announced they wanted a ceremony and to adopt. It's so great how supportive you are of your family and friends. I have my own great friend who I talk to , probably, 6 times a day on the phone, and then text, and of course messaging. I hope that she will be just as emotional for me and you were for them !! Thanks for the 'real'.

tori, i too understand the problems you face with your mother.i lost my mother one year ago to cancer she was only 56 . there was times we said mean things too each other and not speak for months.to make it short you love her and she loves you no matter what was said.tell her you are sorry and that you love her and let all bad feelings disappear in your life.i would give all the money in the world too be able to tell that to her face to face.do it before its too late.

Tori I can understand how you feel about Dean riding his motorcycle. You wanted him to realize that in an instant your whole life could change if something happened to him.You and Dean have a real loving relationship and a wonderful family. I'm glad he decided to give up racing his motorcycle. I hope he finds a hobby that he likes but is not dangerous. I'm really glad your back on TV My Mother and I watch your show every Tuesday and really enjoy it. I have to agree you and Dean have the best reality show. You both are so down to earth. Your Mother should be so proud of you. You are a GREAT MOTHER,WIFE,ACTRESS,AND HUMANBEING!! Keep doing what your doing.

I am so disappointed that Dean gave up yet another passion he has!!!! I sure hope Tori will give up something--It seems that she doesn't want him anywhere-but beside her. No movies-no scuba diving-no motorcycle racing!!! I love the show and I love Tori too-but I also love Dean and feel like he is a door mat or does Tori want him to be a mister Mom???

On June 25, I saw you and your wonderful family in the Maui airport and really wanted to say Hi. I decided not to because I wanted to respect that you and your family were on a family trip. I just want to let you know that you look great and Patsy is looking great. YOU GO PASTY!!!! Hope you and your family had a wonderful and relaxing trip.

Letty Gomez
San Antonio, Texas

Hey Tori, I just wanted to let you know i enjoy watching your family grow together. You and Dean seem to be sweet and caring people and your children are beautiful. Thanks!

Tori, I left a comment on Dean's blog about this as well. My husband races stock cars, and i feel the same way that you do. I loose my friggen mind every Saturday when I see him lined up to come out. I go to every race because if something happens to him I want to be right there by his side. I will say though that i would like one day for him to make the choice to stop. It's scary and we have a family as well. Im in the same position you are, you don't want to tell him to stop, but inside your screaming YOU BETTER STOP RACING OR ELSE!!!! lol. well anyway love your show and i have watched since season 1. Crazy fan was a lil too weird for me i would've been calling for SECURITY!! lol take care!

We love your show-you act like my husband & I except we have 3 kids & ours are 21-16 & 10 It is so nice to watch a reality show thaat is true & from your hearts!!! Tori I am going to get your book-my girlfriend looked for it the other day when i had a minor surgery-I go in for surgery thursday this is my 5th surgery on my back-I am an EMT and I got hurt on the ambulance while we were on a call been in bed for the past 2 yrs FUN FUN-but we are praying that this one will get me out of it cause I am ready to redecorate this room for ONE THING!!!!! Then go do some major shopping & finally take a nice vacation with my family-somewhere other than them swimming everyday!!! PLUS I have a grandson & I am ready to play with him-he is my peanut!! All my kids have nicknames also!! Please keep blessing us with your show-your an AMAZING mother-wife-friend-you are just an angel like the rest of us-God bless u & your family!!!

I just want to say that I love this show and think that Tori and Dean are wonderful parents and their love for each other and their family couldn't is amazing! Love you guys!

Hi Tori,
I see that you are sent tons of messages everyday so I do not know if you will see this or not but after watching your show, I have to tell you, you are not alone with your mother situation. I have the exact same relationship with my biological mother minus the millions of dollars and the public eye. I know how it hurts and I know the humiliation you go through when you hear and read lies that your mother tells. I have lived through it for about 20 years. It is a sad situation but it is reality. I have found that you just have to live your life the way you know is best and DO NOT LET THE LIES GET TO YOU! You are living a great life and your mother is the one who is miserable. DO NOT LET her dictate how you live your life. Just remember you learned what NOT to do with your children from your mother. Just like I did. Keep up the great work and be sure to always make time for you and Dean. :)

Tori,
I am a big fan of you and your show. I know you love animals and I was very disappointed to she you wearing fur coats during your time in New York.

Please tell me your coats are faux fur. If not I encourage you to conduct some research about the animal cruelty involved in the fur industry.

PS - your children are beautiful.

Hi, just love the show, you are both wonderful parents and so much in love.
Tori, I can tell you are such a sweet loving person.
Big hugs to you and your family!!
Tami

tori and dean, you have a beautiful family never forget to just stop sometimes and take a breath, be grateful and most of all thank god every min or sec that you can get for all your wonderful blessings.

Tori and Dean, I love watching yalls show! It always makes me smile and sometimes even cry. You are both such wonderful parents and it is so evident of the love you have for each other. Yall have a beautiful family and I wish the best for all of you. I hope you continue to enjoy doing the show because I never get tired of watching it, even the re-runs! God Bless and Best of Luck in everything yall do!

Tori,

I see your show and everything in your life could be my life...except for the whole your an actress thing! My husband and I go through the same family time issues. We have a son and a baby on the way. He works and I do not. However I know I am needed at home I feel like I am letting them down by not working to help provide. We fight opposite of most couples I have been around...most people I see fight because they have been around each other too much or they never have time apart...we are so not them. We lose an hour from each other and we are either me(crying) or him having a male anger moment! Also, I am unattached from my family which is very hard. I am the outcast. My dad recently found his son from a previous marriage who is now 34, I am 25 by the way. My dad in my memories hated me growing up. I remember being nothing but a burden and in his way and a cost. He has never been able to show his love for me or my family. Which my mom is not like him she still does nothing he does not aprove of. So he found his son and lied to me about it and then went to see him and gave him a truck...my feelings are why do that for a child you gave away when you would never do that for the children you ended up keeping. Your insight on things and the way you put them really set in for me in the right way. I am beside myself with hurt and anger over this. I have decided to cut all ties with my family actually. I feel like if I don't do this they will keep me in pain and tears for the rest of my life. How do you do this with your mom? I have not been able to function.

By the way my husband also does the whole motorcycle thing and when I was pregnant with our son...I put the damn thing for sale on ebay and sold it! That was the end of that! I feared what would happen if we lost him. OUr baby wasn't even here yet. He still wants a bike but I have managed to be the boss when it comes to that specific hobby!

I think you should be very proud of where you gotten to and of course I am a fan I have seen every episode of 90210 atleast 3 times! I watch them on soap network all the time. You did great with your weight and when this baby is here I hope I get back to a size 2 like I was last month! ha! Your family is beautiful!

Amberleigh

Tori and Dean,
Love to watch your show , you both show your loving and caring parents. Keep up the good work
and i'll keep watching, take care and hope for many more years of watching all you guys on tv.

Dear Tori,

I use to watch on the "original 90210". I stopped when the show ended and then I started watching you on Lifetime and then Sonotorious. I am very much a fan especially after the first book. I almost feel like a friend. I do not normally do this but I just wanted to say I think you and your family are great and I hope to see many good things come your way.

Sincerely,
Rachel

And when he is out riding, try your darndest not to think of terri irwin. she knows all about being married to someone with a dangerous hobby (or in steve's case,job, may he always R.I.P.).

Tori, we absolutely love you. Crashes or no crashes. All of us, and our users, are big fans. The show is great and it's so nice to see a mom telling the truth about trying to manage it all.

I'm the breadwinner in my family too, and while that makes me really happy, it's hard to not want to just relax...and having your husband crash doesn't help! You handle it all so well.

We wrote an article about you and we hope you read it!

http://www.betterwaymoms.com/articles/tori-and-dean

Tori, my fiance rides as well, and we have been together over 5 years now, but I still get crazy in the head when he goes out and I worry the entire time. Its a real fear, and justifiable. However, airplane rides, walking across the street, riding in a limo, all pose the same risk. I feel like it's better to allow him that freedom, than to be the woman he builds up resentment over. You know what I mean? You can't keep him in a bubble though we would like a guarantee that he will always be there, there isn't one. BUT putting restrictions on his leisure activities WILL possibly give him something to resent and feel controlled. Yeah, ewww. But just hope for the best. He is a great dad and great friend and husband to you, so you really have to let him just do his thing.

You guys are amazing, and after reading these comments, I know how much people love and relate to you and your family. I know it's no substitute for your looney mother, but just remember that she is to be pitied. You know why? Because she NEVER felt the same kind of love that you feel for your kids. She missed that bond. She missed out on a lot by trying to be her 1980's Candy Spelling self. She lost out on the best part of life, and you should just feel sorry for her and not worry about her. She really isn't worth it. You only need to worry about your little family and you are doing a great job!!! xoxox always

Thanks for a show that really tells an accurate story over the stuggle and challenges of raising children in a home where both parents work (of course there's some hollywood perks. But on a day-to-day basis, Tori and Dean seem like everyone other parent juggling these priorties. I have a 26 month old son, and I identify every week to Tori's emotions and feeling of being pulled in so many directions - the pull to work to the pull of taking care of your child. And I had to chuckle with a recent episode where Dean left for 5 weeks. I had a similar incidence and was left caring for my son while my husband was on a business trip. It's really hard to juggle all the pieces of a household.

2 Questions:
1) When wll Tori be back on HSN?
2) Do you have info on that cute monograhm necklace that Tori often wears?

And Tori - you look really fabulous.

I dunno if Tori or Dean read their blogs but I just have to comment on the show and their lives.
I think these two ppl are the luckiest,most loving,caring ppl I have ever thought of,thru the show etc.They make me jealous of the love they have for their family and their careers.I think they are both truly the epiphany of what love,honor,family and marriage is and I will be a fan for as long as I am gratefully allowed.Ms.Spelling is soooo real,she will talk about anything and its real(what lots wont)and Dean is a real sweetheart, a great man and father.I dunno I can complment these two ppl more than everyone already sees.Kudo's to you both, your adorable kids,your careers, your home and so on.The love between you all makes my heart smile and like alot of us,...we need a lil happiness to carry on.Thank you guys again so much for being "REAL" and sharing your crazy lives with us!!!!!! I LOVE YOU GUYS...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK,LIFE,AND LOVE!!!!!!!!!

Tori,
I love watching you and you fabulous family. I have really become a fan. First let me say you are doing a wonderful job as a wife and a mother. I have 7 kids, and have been married for 21 years (and I am only 40). Most of the emotions and feeling you are going through I have also felt. My hubby decided his outlet was going to be becoming a pilot. Your only feeling this way because you love Dean so much. The two of you will figure out what will be best. Can I say, your mother is a fool...she should embrace who her daughter has become, be proud of, and share in your life. It is to bad that she has to be so bitter. Truly her loss. Keep up the good work!

I have just gotten to watching your show and now it's what my mom and I look forward too all week! Your babies are absolutely precious and amazing. I know you must be sick of hearing about your mom Tori but I just find it sad she is acting they way she is. The thing if it is though is that Liam and Stella seem to have so many people that love and enrich their lives that at the end of day, she is who's losing out, not them. They have all the love and support they could ever need because of you, Dean, "Pats" etc. God Bless.

Tori,
Love the show & both books. I waited for my # to come up to get the second. MOMMYWOOD is so dead on in many ways.It's kinda irronic, I had a client today who has 3 children....What r there names u ask?? Tori, Brandon , & David. He didn't
even realize where teh names came from til I said something & his wife admitted that I was dead on. She's a major 90210 fan !!! Hey congrats on 90210 beating out the OC on the Battle tonight !

Tori,
I love the show, Liam and Stella are just the cutest babies. I have 5, the oldest is now 19, and the youngest is 8. They are each one special in their own way. It is great to see you spend so much time with them, both you and Dean. I even have friends that don't spend as much time with their children and it is a shame that they don't understand that you can never get those missed moments back. I watched every season of 90210, and now every episode of Tori and Dean. I love the energy that you have and being able to live out wishes and dreams through you.
Take care and God Bless

Hey Tori & Dean
You guys are probably my favorite couple in the whole world! I LOVE LOVE LOVE your show! You guys are so great! And your children are beautiful! I hope there are plenty more seasons to come!!! =)
Many blessings and well wishes to you both as well as your beautiful family!

Michelle*

Hey, Tori,

I just heard about your mom telling 94.7 WMAS that all of the sudden you just decided to stop talking to your family. Your mom is extremely vicious. She said it was your fault he died. What the f*&^ is wrong with her? Oh, God, Tori. The woman gave you life, not any more. She is a waste of skin...If she does love you..if..it is a weird sort of love..she is jealous of you..you are prettier, more famous, and you were loved more by your Dad..no wonder..he knew the woman was no good..If I were you, I would immediately cut off all contact, period. She knows where you are at. If she wants to see the grandkids, fine. Other than that, no more contact. You did the right thing by writing your book. You are not whiny and do not boss Dean around. Don't listen to those jerks. You have feelings like every woman out there. There might be something mentally wrong with your mom. It could be bi-polar, personality disorder, there is something wrong with the woman. She sounds like she is not in reality..Do not cry anymore, honey. I wish I was there to give you a big hug, wipe your tears, and give you a big kiss on the cheek. My mom is looney too. She chases me around the house begging for money, gives me a hard time for having sex outside of marriage, has told me I embarrass her and she used to wish they could have given me up for adoption. I am doing the same thing you are..trying to. Be polite if you ever do hear from her, but say that you would prefer for her to leave you alone. She thinks she is making herself look bad...uh..nah...she is looking like an evil, vindictive, manipulative waste of a human being..do not worry anymore Tori..my love to you..cry no more..you were your Dad's world..oh, if your Dad was around to hear what your mom said...oh, he probably would have slapped her in the face and divorced her...she is mistreating his little girl..hold your head up high, honey

Love, always Tori...
your in my heart and prayers

Jennifer Michelle Daly

Tori,I'm glad to hear that Dean wasn"t hurt and that he is okay, Knowing that someone that you love unconditionaly is hurt or sad or just having one of those bad days is the worst feeling that a wife can go through, everyday i worry about my husband making sure that he doest get hurt at work (even if he is a fedex driver) but anything could happen, i look at your family and i'am very grateful that i have mine and love them. Just how you love yours. It is a great feeling to have a good relationship with your kids. Love you all
Charlotte

I loveee thisss showww and if i found out that my boyfriend crashed i would of been just as scared as you were. I love Leam n Stella their both soooo adorablee. I reall hope you and your mom can work somethinq outtt but keep the show upp i really love it =]

You have nothing to feel sorry about. Yes, life is a risk, but when you have young children you have a responsibility to stay as safe as you can. Taking excessive risks and participating in dangerous hobbies is selfish behavior. I think you hit the nail on the head when you asked your friend why you can't have an outside hobby when you're supposed to allow Dean to have one. That's the biggest problem with being a mother--you have to sacrifice the most for the family. Dean needs to put on his big boy undies and stop with the outrageous hobbies. When he wants to ride or scuba dive, he should think of Jack, Liam, and Stella and realize how much more exciting life will be when he's around to watch them all grow up. Best, PJ

You are acting as a typical wife with legitimate worry and concern...I, myself refuse to be "ok" with the fact that my husband wants to get a bike for the simple reason that there are so many irresponsible drivers on the road and if he were to get into an accident, it would most likely end in an unfavorable way. However, In your situation, Dean does seem to yearn for a hobby that has an element of thrill to it.. When you look at the scenario, it's not quite as bad as it seems: if he's going to be on the bike, he does have all of the proper gear and he is in somewhat of a controlled setting where if something does go wrong, he has medical attention available to hime right away. I'd say factoring all of that in to the equation, hopefully helps put your mind at ease a bit. I mean he is a good husband, who obviously loves you and your little ones and has made it clear that your family is his priority..and let's face it, he did give up the scuba (which I totally agree with, by the way!!) --Good Luck!

Tori,
You are gonna push Dean so far away from you with your insecurities. Your constant worry is a real turn off and finally he's going to be so beaten down from not being able to do anything he'll start looking for someone else who will let him do what he wants. Stop being so worried all the time and let him have a hobby.

Tori, I love watching the success and happiness in your life!!! You have been through so much loosing your father let alone your family at such a young age. Everyone of your ventures that you do we love to see you succeed! I love...love...love your decorating sence! Did you paper or paint Stella's room, and do you remember the brand or color???
Thanks!!! Look forward to seeing your show always!!
Allison

As the modern, tough woman you are, I find you are on the right direction with the motorcycle issue, your doing the one thing that ends most marriages, you are talking to him about your feelings and not hiding the issue. Also, your allowing your partner in life to make his own decision about quitting or not. I know it is hard for you right now but, things have a way of working out. Your husband appears to be an adrenaline junky and I feel all his hobbies will have an element of danger in them. Maybe he and Liam can take up martial arts together. It has adrenaline and anything he wishes to get out of it and children can start at a young age. My son and I had the time of our lives together. You keep your chin up, and your life will continue on as great as you wish.

i wont let my husband get a motercycle cause im afired of him getting hurt and after i saw dean fall off and get back up now im thinking i dont want that to happen to cody.well thank you your show helps alot and i love it..
courtney

Growing up with emotional deprivation from my family of origin i have been interested hearing about your irrational fears as i have them also. Mine are basically for the health and safety of my family and people i love. Having no emotional security growing up i wondered if the root cause duplicates yours. I did come across two acronyms that might be useful for anyone reading this comment.

1. FEAR - face everything and recover

2. FEAR - false evidence appearing real

If that is of any use to anyone, great!

This is random I know. I am usually not on the computer finding where I can comment on your show or personal life but I felt I had to. Of course I knew your name from the TV and tabloids as many people did. But when I saw your show it made me crack up and really pay attention to how real you guys actually are. This season I decided to purchase and read your book. I just want to thank you for putting your life all out there, to share your beautiful family with the world. I know every Tuesday I can count on a good laugh. So from my family to yours have a wonderful laughter filled life, because as you have said that is all that is important!

Holla Tori = Kudos girlfriend. Park that bike foreva. I know how you feel - my son Brook, a Toronto guy,rides and races. He's on the track right now. You thought you had problems, Brook doesn't have proper riding gear. DUH! I'm happy Dean is done. If I can't have success I will celebrate yours. Love Phoenix

Tori- your a typical wife...we all worry about our husbands and families! I don't blame you at all..if my husband was out there doing that I would be a nervous wreck! Your heart is in the right place! You are truly a wonderful mother and an amazing wife! I give you major props for actually being a mother in your childrens lives because so many of the hollywood stars just let nannies raise them-and i think its amazing that you are so family oriented! I love the show and i was a huge fan of stori telling-can't wait to read Mommywood! Keep up the good work-and continue to take care of your beautiful family:) God Bless<3

Hey Tori and family, I am the biggest fan of your show. I grew up with 90210 and Loved it never missed an episode, now I dont miss an episode of Tori and Dean. Just Love It!! True Family!! Keep It real!! Gwen

HELLO TORI I FEEL SO SORRY ABOUT DEAN'S MOTORCYCLE CRASH . BECAUSE I SAW YOU ON THE SHOW YOU START CRYING BECAUSE ABOUT DEAN'S CRASH . BYE TORI TAKE CARE .

tori, i have to say im miamis version of you. I also have a son and a daughter and a husband who can be quite the adventurer.I always tell him how you seem to be the average mom one could run into picking up your kid from school or something. keep it real and you have fans in us...

I absolutely love this show. I love Tori and Dean together. I sincerely hope they are not just another Hollywood cliche. I hope it's real and not mad up for TV. I wish more famous couples were this way with each other. It's very refreshing. I hope they'll grow old together.

I used to be a big fan of the show but now I think Tori has turned into a whiny little baby. She doesn't want Dean to do anything except follow her around and be her b**ch. Dean needs to grow some balls and stand by what he wants to do in life instead of giving in to everything she wants.

Normally, I don't like to meddle in the slightest of ways in ANY relationship, especially one where I don't personally know either of the participants. But really, how can you call this a real relationship? I realized that either Candy truly wants to continue a relationship, and Tori is being stubborn or that Candy is using this "feud" as publicity... does the latter ring a bell for any of you?

Personally, I AGREE WITH TORI'S DECISION AND STAND BY IT. The idea that ANY mother can be so heartless and biased towards her daughter and her grandchildren is a little disheartening. It goes to show how much the media effects people's lives. Honestly, I don't know how much even Tori and Candy can say regarding their relationship. Candy says she hasn't even read Tori's book; how can she judge that it says mean and hurtful things because her friends said so? The difference between a friend reading the book and her reading the book is a huge one. The small references may help Candy to realize what Tori might have felt about it and be able to look past the hurt that may or may not have been inflicted, again, HAD Candy read the book.

I just hope the two can look past their differences and form a relationship that isn't controlled by tabloids and letters posted on their websites. The strain from the media is a great one that they need to overcome. I guess by now you can tell who I am in favor of in this argument (hint, hint... TORI), but it's not mine, or anyone else's, say - just Tori's and Candy's.

If any of the two of you are reading this, Tori and Candy, I wish you gain the courage to get up, dust yourself off, and be the bigger person. You can't ever add strain to a relationship that is practically nonexistent, right? What's the harm in being what you even want for a mother and daughter and going for it? So, again, I wish you all the best.

These people are a complete and utter waste of humanity. The fact that this network would put two people like this on television is sad and reflective of the pornification of society.

They are both losers - always have been and always will be.

Hi Tori and family,
I know you hear it from everyone on this blog...but I just think you are amazing! I so enjoy your show and watching you and your family grow. I grew up watching, of course, 90210, and honestly wasn't a huge fan of Donna Martin but "Tori Spelling" is fabulous!!!
I completely understand about what you are going through with your mom. I too do not speak to my mother. We have always had a hard time being in a relationship and now we just don't. :( Its hard enough to deal with it in private, I can't even imagine having to deal with it with everyone in the world watching and judging. You are so strong to do that and I admire you. You make me feel like I am not the only woman that doesn't really have a mom to share my life with.
Thank you for all your hard work, dedication and effort, you are an inspiration!
Carrie
San Diego

Hey Tori!

I wrote something on Dean's blog, and I think it would be good for you to read. I can understand how you feel. Honestly, I have a very important person in my life that is a volunteer firefighter. I got a phone call one day that he was hurt, and it made me feel just like you probably did in that second. It made my heart stop, my breathing quicken, and my eyes droop. I actually passed out when I saw him on the hospital bed! But, like I said on Dean's blog, it happens to the best of us. The things that we go through in everyday life, even, are going to happen. Call it karma, call it fate, call it annoying, but its inevitable.

What you can do is try and make Dean realize where you're coming from. It's completely surreal to try and imagine what your life would be like without the love of your life, isn't it?

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wring so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." Marilyn Monroe spoke some of the truest words that make me understand what I just told you.

On a happier note, you and your family are the epitome of a good-natured family. I love you guys, and god bless!

Tori,

I think that you and your family are great! I love watching your show. You seem so real!! You are a great MOM and Wife.It is refreshing to see how you and Dean live your lofes and raise your kids. Keep your head up girl. You should be proud of the life you and Dean have made.I only get to watch you when I am at work because I don't have dish are cable at home so I don't see you as much as I would like. I loved you on the earliy 90210 and now. I am a mother of four and have been married for 17yrs. and I don't know how you do all that you do. I get tiried just watching you.

Love Always,

GEE-GEE

Tori,

I am a stay at home mom and I have a son that will be 2 in August and I am having the same issues that you are having with Liam. Screaming, crying, throwing, temper tantrums. I also have a daughter that is 4 and there are days when she doesn't help the situation. Dean and my husband are the same when it comes to trying to stop the screaming. My comment is good luck let me know how that works out for you. I look at it is a stage and it will pass. I love your kids clothes. When and where are they going to sold?

Tori I love your show and I have read your first book and just bought your second book. The reason I love your show so much is that my situation with my mother is just like yours with your mother. My mother is all about herself and her needs and she has never been the mother I so desire to have. Also like you I have made my friends my family.

I also wanted to share an idea I have about your jewelery. In our town we have a jewelery line that is sold in homes by reps (kind of like tupperware). I think it would be great for your to expand you jewelery line to be sold by reps in homes. I left my email address if you are interested in the idea I could share more information about the Jewlery line sold in my area.

Tori- I love your monogrammed necklace. Who is the designer?

Tori and Dean....
Love your show...love it. If you ever want a little fun and relaxation, I am having a Christmas in July fundraiser...everyone has to bring 10 cans of food to be donated to the Colorado Aids Project Food Bank...Santa will be there, some live musical entertainment and tons of food. Heck, my Mom has made about 1000 homemade cookies, you name it, I have it. 15 trees and loads of fun too. Oh, I am in Denver, actually Highlands Ranch, Colorado. Have a great great life and take care...ps, loved your Bed and Breakfast, very nice.

Jason

I know you are torn and scared. I think we all have those fears, you are not alone. When we finally meet the ONE person that becomes our world and our future we want to keep it in a bubble and protect it from all dangers be it physical or emotional ( like other women) BUT..put the shoe on the other foot, what if you had a minor accident on a movie set and Dean came racing over thinking the worst. Should you give up acting because a light could fall on your head? Or a crazed fan could rush in? It seems to be in his blood to be a bit of a daredevil, do you really want to change that? Maybe it's one of the things you love about him. Let your relationship flourish by being a couple as well as individuals...and make the time you have together the best it can be, and trust that he would not do anything to cut your relationship short.

Tori,
After reading your first book it is understandable why you wouldnt want to lose Dean. He is the one your supposed to be with. He is the peanut butter to your jelly. Its understandable that your going to be upset. But he is on a closed track not racing up and down the highways. Plus, he is only racing with other riders at his level. Sure accidents can happen, but it wouldnt be on purpose. In the end I know everything will work out for you guys. You deserve it.
Cant wait to see what happens Tuesday night.
Much love,
Lauren

Tori, I love you guys. You're so amazing in all you do. You are such a wonderful mother & truly was meant to be one. This is probly why your mom never was a good one. She wasn't meant to be one obviously. How can anyone give birth to a child & not love that child unconditionally? We'll never know this. But; know that you're a wonderful, loving,caring mother. And as for Dean and his riding the motorcycle. It's something he loves & he doesn't want to make you worry or stress. It's quite obvious that he loves you & the kids deeply. And wouldn't do anyting to upset you or leave you all. Just remember that things happen daily that none of us are in control of. Actually in Deans defense. He's probly alot safer racing than on the freeway........so; on that note think about that. You know he doesn't want to do anything that would harm himself or take himself away from such a beautiful family. I am proud of you both & all that you two have built together for your family. You guys ROCK!!!!!!!!!! Love your shows & so do my grand children. We watch it togehter often. Love to you & your wonderful handsome husband & beautiful children. Can't wait until your book comes out. I gotta have it. Laura

Tori really is that Nag who makes her husband give up anything that she perceives is risky. Her being in the limelight like she is puts her at more risk being seriously hurt by an obsessed fan than he is scuba diving or something. You do not see her offering to give that up though.
Dean is whipped though to cave in to her nagging so easily like he does. Maybe he is actually scared by these activities and this gives him a reason to quit other than owning up to his fears.

I saw Liam with a sippy cup and would like to know the brand so I can buy some for my son.

Hi T,
I join the consensus of everyone loving your show. It touches me emotionally on so many levels. I can better see myself more as a mother to a daughter your age, grandmother (like your mother) and better able to evaluate myself in those roles. I have so much to share with you. Truths you may find useful. I'm not keen on sharing what I want to say to you in a public forum, however you could find my email addy if you are interested in my heartfelt feelings about how I see issues and how I see you not being at fault. I am so very proud of you and what's not to love about you? Please have someone provide me with an address so I can share my observations and feelings with you.With your mother, it's not your fault. You are so incredible just the way you are and have to prove nothing to anyone other than yourself.

Marilyn

Tori,
It's cool that you struggle with the idea of Dean riding motorcycles and the danger of it. It shows your love and concern for him and his happiness. However, I think Dean is being selfish and needs to show more concern for his family. There is no problem with a father having a hobby. Even a hobby that doesn't always envolve his family. However, he truly should show more respect for your feelings and concerns for issues of safety. Other wives may not have the same concerns but he chose YOU and he made a family that needs him with you not thoes other women. I dig Dean and don't intend to bash him over this but he isn't being considerate enough and you shouldn't be made to feel guilty. He should just do the right thing on this one. (If there are any guilt trips to lay out maybe he should think about what your hobby is...work?)

Tori you have got to stop! Stop obsessing about the things that Dean does, this is the 2nd thing you've tried to make him leave because of YOUR neurocies. You will drive him away if you keep poo pooing his pleasures. Being too overbearing can happen between husband and wife, not just mother and daughter, hint hint. there is already a wedge between one important person in your life, don't create another one.

Tori,

I am glad to hear that Dean is not hurt and hope that he can continue to express his true pleasures wihtout hurting himself. I finaly MADE the ime in my crazy world to get your first book and it was OUTSTANDING. I couldn't put it down. I got my nails done the other day and a girl had Mommywood. My life is crazy and recorded the episode where the shoot was in your house and recognized the cover. So I am going out to get it tomorrow. You have lots of fans and lots of blogs that all say the same. I met my husband while we were both married. When I was reading your book I was reading about portions of my life. Just like Dean is to you, my husband is my rock, my shelter, my best friend and my soul mate. We were meant to be. He has enabled me to be a stronger better person. He is my everything. As crazy as the world may become, never forget to nurish and cherish each other and the love you have. Hugs and Kisses to Liam and Stella!!!!

Tori, just love you and the show. Got to tell you, though, you need to do some important stuff to get your life in order. 1. You need to forgive your Mom,and get together with her. For you, yes, but more for the kids. 2. You need to set Dean straight. He is playing off all the work you do. He is like a 12 year old, what he wants he gets. He hardly works, and then has the sugary sweet phoney way when he wants something. He needs to step up and be a man in the household. 3.You type A working is going to kill you and ruin your family. You are a wonderful Mom, and that was what you were created for first and foremost...take it seriously. 4. You need to spend less...the childrens BD parties are just way off the charts. When Liam is 18, what will he be able to do to earn what you have made him accustomed to getting? There needs to be rules, and that is where Dean is right in the dicipline area. Just had to say this, because you can't hear me through the TV. Hey Dean...get your act together....go to work and bring home some bacon, even if it's Canadian.

Tori,
I have wanted to send you a note on a couple of occasions but this week I decided I must! I cried with you this week as I know exactly what you are going through. My husband races cars not motorcycles but I know the call that your husband is in an ambulance and on the way to the hospital. I have also been in a car following an ambulance. SO NOT FUN! I thought my hubby would stop after having a child but it is just in his blood or at least that is what he says. I like you would hate to ask him to stop something he loves as I am sure he would never ask of me but I do not put my life at risk by going on girl trips. I have just come to realize that God is in control and God will take care of both of us. There are so many times that I watch your show and think of myself and my marriage. I know I will be thinking of you as we are trying to get pregnant and I am dreading that whole c-section thing as well. I am so greatful that there is someone else out there going through the same things! Thanks

dear tori i totally agree with you racing cars is very dangerous. dean should get a new hobby.

I guess it was naive of me to think you'd read my comment yesterday about how my husband died while taking lessons to learn to ride track. There are lots of ways to enjoy hobbies without having to be so casual about your life. NO AMOUNT OF PROTECTIVE GEAR CAN SAVE YOU WHEN YOU CRASH INTO ANOTHER RIDER AT 90 PLUS MILES AN HOUR.
Think about it.

I can understand being upset Tori. My husband goes hunting and fishing ,as you know its a scary world out there. I'm always worrying on what if this or that happens what would I do without him? He's my world. We have a forlegged daughter together. No human children. You are a wonderful Mom and you and Dean make a great couple and beautiful babies.

hey tori,
i just wanted to say that im ur biggest fan and i pray for the motorcycle thing and ur family everynight and i even say goodnight to all yall in LA and i go through a whole list of people (the guncles, mehran, jenny and her family etc.)haha. well email me if u can!
love.love.love.
morgan

PS: i hope to go to LA and come visit to meet you!

Dear Tori,
You are growing and maturing so very quickly! I AM SO PROUD FOR YOU!From where I sit,one can see how much you appreciate all you have been given.It's plain and clear how you protect your lives together so very fiercly! You are awesome! I am a believer in our Lord Jesus, and anyone can see the fingerprints of God all over your family's lives!
Just continue to hold tight to the things you believe in.The Lord loves you and your sweet little family so much.
Trust in the Lord and just know,God will direct Dean's path, and will give you peace, just have faith, okay?

Hello Tori

I think I will just say as fan status and I am in a profession that celebreties are just neutral. However, I know what is broadcasting now was probably filmed Feb/Mar timeframe but babygirl .....you need to rethink your position on a couple of items and lose Candyland on some reactons. Sorry You may not to read further, but it is those fears, behaviors etc that can drive a wedge between you and Dean, I understand your pain from family separation. My Mother was a sibling of 8, yet I find myself an orphan. I have also dated since an early age and I beg you Tori to be stronger, less drama and listen to what DEan tells you (your third child) If you want to keep your marriage pure and strong, Dean says he wants you three times a day.... you brush him off )I am telling you babe, if I was an LA wife, I would find any way to accomodate 3 times as well as the surprise factor Men want that ambush factor when you have some new fantasy email me if you need more I do NLP hypno reiki and other skills,if you actually read this

OMG DEAR TORI,
AS YOU SEE FROM ABOVE, THERE ARE MANY PRO AND CONS FOR CYCLE RIDING. IT SOUNDS AS THOUGH IT CAN BE DEADLY ON AN OPEN ROAD. BUT MAYBE THE TRACK IS SOMEWHAT SAFER.
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN ABOUT DEAN, AND YOU ARE RIGHT, KEEPING HIS INDIVIDUALITY IS IMPORTANT.
MY HUSBAND WAS A COP FOR THE FIRST NINETEEN YEARS OF OUR MARRIAGE. HE LOVED THE ACTION, I HAD ANXIETY ATTACKS.
LIFE HAS NO GUARANTEES, I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU A MAGIC SOLUTION. PRAYER IS A GOOD THING.
LOVE, KLEE

Hi Tori! I really wanted to let you know I enjoy watching your show. I look forward to watching it everyweek. This past show it was very understandable why you got so upset about the Dean's accident. The same thing similar happend to me when my husband got into a car accident then called me as he was getting into the ambulance. He was very short on the phone and just let me know he got in the accident, was going to the hospital and would call me later (he wasn't thinking clearly of course cause of the shock of it all). I didn't know what to think I felt the same numb feeling you described and my whole world come crashing down. I thought of all of the what if's and etc. Thank God he was fine but I was so upset that he called me like that and I had feel those scary feelings and such worry. He is the one thing in my whole life that has truly been good. He is my best friend & soul mate. Looks like God has truly blessed you as well with a good man and beautiful children. You can definately tell you two are in Love and that you both Love your children very much. I just wanted to say Thanks for letting everyone into your lives and have the opportunity to see what a real love story is.
Take care and God bless.. Amy

Hey Tori and everyone. I just wanted to say I love your show I look forward to Tuesday nights so I can watch. I think you are a wonderful mother and I hope I can be a mother like you are with your kids someday. Plus, you got the wife thing goin on too wow! keep up the good work.

Tori you are right in saying time will work itself out. A love like yours is just so wonderful, how can you help but worry when he does something so risky. However, everything we all do is risky you never know when life is going to deal you a crappy card. Let him enjoy what he can as you should. Enjoy what you have and let him enjoy it to. Don't live your life like you have to look around every corner for something bad to happen. Be happy, rejoice in the love and happiness you have now. He will do what he can of course to stay safe as will you for him and the kids and even patsy. You have a great heart and will watch out for him and them. Thats what moms do, you are a natural. Trust in that.

This comment isn't really relating to the whole motorcycle accident, although i would have reacted the exact same way. I always over annalyze and for good reason, i think. What if she would have shown up and Dean was seriously injured or dead. I cried and cried when they were communicating after he came home. They love each other so much and want each other to be so happy, but safe and always around. A love like that is rare now-a-days!!
Anyway... I love the relationship Tori and Dean have with each other. I feel like i am a good friend of theirs when i watch their show and like i am listening and crying with them through the ups and downs. They are strong and they NEVER give up!!
Tori is the kind of mom i would LOVE to be. I have 2 little girls of my own and i am too, a work-a-hiolic. Watching her and seeing her desire to spend as much time with her kids as possible has made me sit back, re-evaluate how much time i spend with my girls and has made me start spending more time with them. After all, in the long run all that is important is my adorable, wonderful husband and my two lady bugs!
And Dean, as much as he always wants sex... i love to see how much he is in love with her and how he isn't afraid to compliment her and let her know how beautiful and special she is. What a great man!!

We have a lot in common. My husband too is a Scorpio and a motorcycle racer (Flat Track) God help us both:) He is also about the same age as Dean and is a "Motorcycle Enthusiast." My only advise (not that you asked for it) is to have a reasonable discussion with him and as long as Dean knows, which it sounds like he does, that family comes first, you don't really have a problem. Life can end tomorrow at any time and for any reason. We have to live each day to the fullest and love to the fullest. It seems to me Dean is doing just that. You really can't ask for more.

Just stopping by to say thanks. Thanks for having a show, for letting us have a glimpse into your lives. You tell it like it is and we love it. Your show tapes on our DVR and the next nite its part of our family show nite. popcorn and all! thanks so much. blessings

Tori, I just saw the web series and I feel you should leave your mom alone,since your father past away she had never shown she wanted you in her life, so you know how it really was before your father past away. You have two wonderful kids and a spouse that love's you. Don't get it wrong dean, I still think your not thinking for your kids when you want to race, (DEE DEE DEE), kids come first Dean. Anyhow love the show and I feel for you Tori in regards to your mother. Your friends from Ralph's, Tony and the to little girls witch one gave both of you guys a tight hug.

Hi tori i just wanted to say I love your show, I like your show better than The bad girls club and I really like The bad girls club... I under stand how upset u got when Dean wreaked his motocycle, My husband has a motocycle and it's nothing but a death trap no matter how many times I tell him that he just won't listen. By the way I love yours shoes that you had on at the fashion show, I can't believe some lady spilled whine down your leg into your shoes. I think you have a great style. I also had my daughter around the same time you had yours. Some of the questions you asked the doctor was so funny. It showed how real you are. Well i just wanted to write you and tell u that I love your show and would love to see your show on air for a long time.... Well Love your show, Cheyenne

Hi Tori, I record your show every week because I am a mom of 3 kids and work fulltime.. I understand where you are coming frm with being afraid of some of Dean's hobbies. You should always know that love will get you guys through anything, My husband and I have been married for 17 yrs this month and there are alot of things he does that scares the crap out of me but I always know he puts me and our children first no matter what. When you have a strong bond nothing ever comes in between that always trust he Will do the right thing for you and your children. I also wanted to tell you I loved your book its funny I grew up watching you on 90210 and also have watched some of your movies on Lifetime. You are a great mom and always know someday your own mother will reach out to you. You make the first move and give her some time she will come around trust me. My mom couldnt stand each other for years but after the birth of my 1st born child who is now almost 16 and ready to start driving my mom and I are closer then ever. She will want to be want to be there and if she doesnt that is her lost and dont ever think it is your fault no matter what. Always keep an open mind no matter what after she is your mother and you only have 1 mom no matter how bad of a parent they were. God Bless you and your family .... Amy

The Bikers Prayer
Dark rebel knight
Rides on eagles flight
Of horses and might.

The roar of his charm,
Strong leather bound arms.
Wind swept hair,
Weather beaten stair.

Fly to your place
Explore Gods space
Sun and wind you'll embrace.

Seize moments in time,
Your at peace sublime.

Hell! Your poetry in motion!
Express your spiritual devotion!

Praise God your alive!
Keep him with you as your guide,
Let go of all pride brother
It hides your beauty inside.

Journey on dark night.
Praise your beauty an light.

Let wind take you where it might.
May God always keep you in his sight.

PATRICIA HERMES

My brother died on a Motorcycle - We buried him on his 25th B-day.

He had two small babies like you, a little girl 5 and a son 2, and 2 weeks after he passed away, his wife found out she was pregnant... A son he never knew. Dean may feel its necessary to follow his passion... But, is it worth the lifetime of torment you and your children will feel if the worst should happen? Maybe it's time to be a husband and Father.

Bless you and your family always!

Patricia Hermes

Tori,
I love the show and your books because I can see how real you are, not the two dimensional representation in the magazine. You have your fears and hopes, especially around Dean. Watching the way you interact with him, I can see your insecurities about your body and self-esteem. Like when he compliments you or tells you he finds you sexually attractive, you tell him he's nasty. I understand that what you really mean is that you don't feel at all sexually attractive. It's amazing to see anyone so emotionally available. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. This show has made me your fan.

TORI

I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL, BUT LET DEAN HAVE HIS OUTLET,WITH CERTAIN CONDITIONS. TELL DEAN HE IS AN AWESOME DRIVER AND DOES VERY WELL BUT HE DOES NEED TO BECOME A LEVEL 3!! THAT WAY HE CAN STILL RIDE..BUT NOT WITH TOO MUCH SPEED!!!! I THINK YOU TWO ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE BECAUSE OF THE WAY YOU LOVE EACH OTHER, U DONT SEE LOVE LIKE YOURS VERY OFTEN!!! SO TRY TO COME TO A FAIR CONCLUSION AND NEVER SWEAT THE SMALL THINGS!! THE BOTH OF YOU ARE GOOD PARENTS!! AND DONT STRESS OVER LIAM AND HIS TANTRUMS..I HAVE A 2 YEAR OLD AND ITS LOOK LIKE LOOKING IN A MIRROR!!! IT WILL ALL PAST(ONE DAY)!!!!!!!

This is a tough one because almost all of the potential outcomes could be hurtful to someone in some way, shape or form. If I were in your shoes I would make sure Dean knew exactly where I was coming from with my very valid concerns about his well being and allow him to make his own decisions. Personally, I don't think you should be held responsible if he decides to quit racing.

Tori, if you're not already, maybe you could become familiar with the Law of Attraction. It's a metaphysical concept that dictates that we draw into our lives what we want and see for ourselves in our own minds. So, if we imagine bad things happening to our loved ones then we will create cir #&@% stances out in the real world where bad things happen to our loved ones. But if we picture scenarios where they are protected and safe then they will be protected and safe in reality as well.

It's a subtle concept but it can have a major impact on your life. It was how I shifted away from being a severe worry wart to a more realistically minded optimist. One of my favorite sayings is that worry is just creative energy that's being used in a destructive way. Of course, some amount of worrying is healthy and necessary in everyday life, but there comes a point where it does more damage than good.

Best of luck to you Tori. And btw, I'm such a huge fan of your books and tv show! I hope Tori & Dean will stay on the air for many years to come!! *hugs*

Tori,
I totally understand where you are coming from with Dean, and not wanting him to do dangerous things that could kill him. My husband wants a motorcycle and I can not bring myself to let him have one. It would suck to not have him around too. Its really not him that I do not trust, its others on the road. I understand your moments where you just want to be a stay at home mom. I lost my father 4 years ago. Ever since my father past away it is hard for me to want to work fulltime and miss things in my daughters life. She is twelve now, and thinking about how I only have so long and she will be an adult, scares me. Our kids do not have to come around and see us when they grow up. Its scary to think about someday we will not have our love ones around. It makes you wish time could stand still. When I first had my daughter I thought, Im working to give her everything I didnt have. Now, Im like, do material things really matter.....Sometimes doing the responsible thing, is the hardest thing to do.

Hi Tori,
I love watching you and your family and I have to say that your fears are perfectly normal and of course you don't want to lose the man you waited your whole life for. With that said, you also don't want to keep him from his needs and passions outside of the family. Do your research on his sport. How many deaths have there actually been on that track at the level Dean is racing? His protective gear, is it the best? Can he upgrade on any of his gear to calm your fears in any way? etc..
There has to be give and take especially in marriage. He loves you and is torn now with his passion for getting on that motorcycle and not wanting to see you hurt, but find out the facts of his racing first, to calm some of your fears to see if that helps so that he can continue with his outlet. I know you guys will get through it!! You love each other so much and it shows.
Good luck!!

Tori -
Can I just say... your family is too stinkin' cute!!!
I am a mom of 18 month-old twins, so it is hard for me to sit and watch tv sometimes, but I got the chance yesterday to tune in and spend some time with your family, as I have in the past when I've had a free minute. (wish there were more!)
You and Dean are so sweet and so much in love, and it's pbvious you both love your kids so much. It's so nice to see that you are a real family, despite the bright lights.
Also, please keep up the taping of Liam's "terrible twos" - I am about to embark on that journey myself - times two!!! Seeing you deal with the issues just shows that kids are kids, famous parents or not, and they all need love to thrive, not just money.
Good luck to you and your family, whatever the endeavors may be!
Love your show! Can't wait to read your books!
-Stefanie

I have watched all of your episodes. From the moment I started watching your family and friends I have fell in luv with you all. I understand that you are scared for Dean. We all have someone in our lives that we care for so much that we are afraid to let go. Just remind him that he has two babies and a loving wife at home. He'll make the right decision. I hope that everthing works out for your family and am really looking forward to new episodes...
Luv, An understanding Fan

Torie,

While watching TV I came across Home Sweet Hollywood and decided to watch an episode. I completely fell in love with you and your family. You and Dean are so incredibly sweet together I find myself in tears quite often. What you wrote above gave me chills. I feel the same way about my husband. Everything we have is nothing without our other half.

While I was watching your show, my husband was on the computer but it wasn't long until he was sitting there watching it with me, falling in love with the two of you like I already had.

Your family is beautiful and I love your relationship with your husband and kids.

Samantha

hi tori an dean I love u all so much just keep up the good work and thank god eveyday much love

My husband also has a passion for motorcycles and rides them often. I'm pregnant with our first child so I don't know if it was the hormones or the fact that I could so closely relate but I was crying my eyes out last night when Tori was so upset about Dean riding. When she cried and said she could never imagine her life without him I lost it! I also tend to have irrational thoughts but something very bad could happen and I get so mad at my husband for being selfish enough to put his life in danger and risk the wholeness of our family. I hope he stops riding someday I doubt i'd get that lucky. He says its his therapy, his outlet so I suppose that just means I need to indulge in more of my therapy by spending more time at the mall! MEN!

Love the show!
Jamie