

DEAN
Without them I'm lost.
Tue June 16
I bought my race bike without consulting with T because she would probably give me a hard time for buying it. She would have thought I was jumping into a new sport too quickly and getting my own equipment. She would have wanted me to do it for a year to see if it was something I was really passionate about. Well, I'm glad I did. I am super passionate about this sport and it is something I'm going to do for a long time.
It's really nice to have two incomes. Since we have three children it nice to feel you have some financial security for them. At the same time it's scary. Our business is very fickle and work can dry up as quickly as it presents itself. We both always try to find the next project, even when we're in the middle of 2 or 3 others.
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Dean, I have to disagree with you on your bike purchase as you should not be spending that kind of money without both of you ok'ing it. This goes for Tori as well. If you want to function as a married couple, it includes discussing things like this. Had Tori said to wait, you could have said you didn't want to, then took it from there. Going behind her back takes away trust.
I also feel both of you need to start watching your spending since who knows how long T&D will be on? Then what? I hope Tori has learned from her past money mistakes.
Tori I like you. COming from money you come across as a "normal human being" but come on
giving your kids a white snow in California is so important to you. Their father comes from Canada they can have snow any time you want to give it to them just go back to Dean's home town. Kids are dying of illnesses and you are thinking of putting snow in California - what a waste.
Dean you are ok but come on too strong how you love Tori - you say it too often and too guey. You don't have to say I love you every minute you just show it in actions and other people know it so don't come on so strong about love its like your trying to make everyone believe it and you should not have to do that.
I wish you both a long marriage but Dean you have to start working more.
Dean, I saw the last episode where you got rid of your bikes and I understand how you feel about your hobby bro. You gotta have an out dude! I wanted to suggest Brazilian Jiu Jitsu to you. It is a non-striking sport. Developed by the Gracie brothers in Brazil it is basically submission wrestling or grappling. Its a tough sport and it will put you in shape. Dude, the first time I tried it I was hooked! Injuries are rare and minor so your wife should be okay with it. My wife is cool with it, been married 16 years. Anyway bro, check it out, you might like it! Oh yeah, love the show!!
Dean,
I think you should back off the dangerous things that you are a Father. I am not telling you not to have fun. But be safe because your wife and kids need you.
I think you are a great husband, thank you for showing us that there is a great husband and father on TV. I love that you are there for Tori and listen to her. Alot of men don't get the listen thing with the wife.
My heart go out to Tori I am going threw that same thing but with my siblings. I also lost my Dad. I was his pick and so was my son. I miss him alot. I care for my Mom in my home I promise my Dad I wouldn't put her in a home. Life is hard at time but I find away to go on. My husband is also great like you. I don't know what I would do without him.
Candi
Hey Dean first thing I need to say is Please tell Tori that I thought when she did Lucy in you video
it was so much like Lucy I could hardly believe it
she did a great job.Meant to tell her and ran out of room. Dean you are a great person your a great Dad and husband you seem so caring to all three of your childern are very lucky. Was happy to hear that Jack moved to Ca. and is closer to you guys
Thats wonderful for all of you. My boys father and I broke up when the boys were 1 and 3 he never
had time for them and my oldest boy really resited him for that. My youngest son passed away
6 years ago. Cherish your childern they are a gift and could be taken at anytime and trust me there is nothing worse in this world.You and Tori
are great together and it's really cute to see you to. She does have you wrapped around her little finger and there's nothing wrong with that.
I am from Ca. my family is still there, I will be out there in Oct or Nov. I am getting a new Grandchild. Are you and your family coming to Fl .
near Daytona beach anytime soon I would love to come meet you and have Tori sign her books. Gotta go for now it is almost time for your show. Oh yea one more thing I know how you feel to have to pick up dog poo we have the same problem with one of our dogs
Later Vicky
I just wanted to let you know, I love your show. Torri and you are so real! Your two little ones are so beautiful and lucky to have such good, loving parents.
Dean - I think you guys are a great couple. This is the first time I've written to a blog, let alone a celebrity. But I just wanted to say that I love your show. I don't watch reality TV, except for yours and I can't get enough. It's nice to see that celebs live like the rest of us really! I read some negative comments here, but I don't share them. I think you are doing a great job as a dad, it's so obvious that you are two are truly in love. I hope everything continues to go well for you. Congrats on your movie, I am looking forward to seeing Santa Baby 2. Keep on riding your bike. My husband and I are Harley riders (and we are NOT young). We don't race, but we love the ride.
I LOVE YOU GUYS , MAY YOU HAVE A LONG HAPPY HEALTHY LIFE, EVERYTIME THEY PLAY 'LOOK HOW FAR WEVE COME' I CRY. YOUR THE CUTEST COUPLE, MAY ANGELS WATCH OVER YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN.
I can totally relate to your son's outbursts. My son is going through the hitting, biting, and kicking stage as well. I like the way you handle the situations with him. Good luck as you continue on this rocky path.
Dean,
I am always leaving messages for Tori so here is one for you :)
I just love and adore you and one of the biggest reasons that I adore you is because of the way you love Tori and the kids...you set such a strong example for other men to follow it is so refreshing to see a man that says and does the things a wife needs...you make it look so simple perhaps because you love your wife unconditionally! (and those adorable babies too)
Now Dean with that being said ( hahahahaha) I have to be honest, it concerned me when you blogged about not talking to T first before you bought your bike "NOT ONE OF YOUR SMART MOVES DEAN BOY"!
It would be so easy to fall into that trap of not talking because you might now want to hear what T is thinking... T loves you believe me we can all feel it coming through our tv screens she "REALLY" loves you and if she would want you to wait there must be a reason right? at least let her vent her reason(s) and be honest! It would make her feel so much more important in your life if you make her feel like her opinion matters ( we all know you were gonna get the bike anyway) but letting T have her say would have been nice of you to do!
Iam happy that you have something you truly love there is nothing wrong with that but please dont start dissing T by not discussing important things like big boy bike purchases.. " wink wink"
you would not like it if she did that to you :) right:)?
Love you both and thank you for allowing us into your home to share your private life!
Stay on the right path Dean your attractive, loving, honest, faithful and supportive and I do NOT want anything to happen to my T and D! I feel like part of the family from watching the show...that is what your show does to those of us who love you guys!
Love and hugs to you, T and the kids:)
Marianne
I really do like the Tori and Dean show. I think it's great that someone that grew up in and around Hollywood is so grounded. You see Tori and Dean interacting with their children. Something rare in the Hollywood glits and glamor lifestyle. Tori and Dean restore my faith in those who are blessed with more than most.
I like how you never forget about your older son. I think that is the most wonderful thing a man can do because so many fathers out to day do not reconize there other family. Also HAPPY FATHERS DAY and many more.
Hi, I would like to know where Dean got the Laser eye surgery, and the name of the doctor. Thanks!
Alexis Bail.
To Dean: You left Your wife and child for Tori, are you going to leave Tori if you meet a younger woman, with a Name in Hollywood? I sure hope not, for your 2 new childrens sake.
My love to Tori.
hey dean i am monique i must say that i love to watch the torri an dean show i wishee that i have parence like u guys,any way i just want u 2 be car full on thise bike it really look scary an con....to be a good husban ok bye.
Without them you would be lost, and broke! Tori probably would give you a hard time for buying the bike because she is good with economics, and you are not. Not to mention she needs the father of her children home, helping with the kids and etc. I thought you didn't like being away from your family? You put on a show, and I'm not buying it. You have got to be kidding. One film and you think you are a major movie star. Tori works her butt off, and all you are thinking about is your hobbies; do you have an OCD psychological disorder. You know that Tori' name would help bring you work, and fortune. How about the other child/children? How do you pay child support, when you don't work but a quater of the time. In the above statement you noted it was great to have two incomes. Did you address that issue because you feel the way the public is viewing you?
Well i just have to say i dont care what kind of work you do being away from your family is hard and for people to sit there and complain about tori going on and on about it is just disrespectful i think that you and tori are doing a darn good job with your children and i really hope you guys stick we see hollywood relationships come and go but i hope you guys grow very old togeather bye
Dean, I think you should continue to race motorcycles. I know it is a dangerous sport, but when you have a passion for something, it should not go unchecked. You are a good dad, so I know you would not take unnecessary risks. Life is short and you and Tori should live your dreams. You both are doing that now, which is very inspiring.
hugs to you both!
It sucks to be away from family. Believe it or not I can relate to your wifey so much...even though I am not a public figure. I just saw your new episode a couple of minutes ago and I felt Tori's pain. Well except this time Im the one leaving. My hubby and I are in the Army and he is getting ready to deploy for the second time to Afghanistan (SUCKS!!!!), but this time Im leaving my family for the first time. I leave Sunday to Washington State for some training. I will be gone for a month and its the longest time I will be away from them. Now its my turn to leave the nest. Im going to miss my hubby and lil boy so much. Worst off, they take my phone away!!! Arggg! But it is the sacrifices we must make to give our children the life they deserve....I love you guys. And I dont normally love people I dont know!! LOL. God Bless you and your two lil ones. Tell your wifey she makes me strong because its possible to be a working mommy and still be a good mommy.Bye :)
It is beautiful to see a family pick up after long time battles with others. You have proven to all the negative people you have come across that no one can bring you down and that multi million dollar estates do not buy love. Hugs for all your charity work and life lessons. Keep it up! Stella and Liam are adorable!!! May God bless!
Didn't Stella see snow in Whistler? You and Tori inspire me. You're a great couple!
Love the show, but one comment after watching this week....leaving your family for 5 weeks can be difficult, however, hearing you and Tori constantly say that sort of bothered me because our men and women in the military have to leave their families all the time, and most of the time it's for a lot longer than 5 weeks and they are in harm's way while gone. I understand it's difficult to be away from your wife and children, but you have a more ideal situation than alot of families, be grateful it's ONLY 5 weeks and your life is not in constant danger while you are away.
I totally hated the show Tuesday!!!!! I am so kidding.. lol- It was great. I loved it. I felt so bad when you had to leave for 5 weeks. You are such a wonderful person and you can tell you are kind hearted. I hope the best to you all..