DEAN

Sex and marriage are a funny thing.


There is no greater feeling as an actor than getting an offer for a movie. All actors dream of one day getting to the point in their careers when they don't have to audition anymore. It symbolizes your arrival as a successful actor, a celebrity, a STAR!! Before I go any further, let me clarify, in no way shape or form do I believe I have reached that status, but damn, it's nice to get a glimpse at it.

The trip to the Vancouver Aquarium with Liam, Stella, and Patsy was a little stressful. It's always a little difficult when taking kids on outings. You never know what to expect -- if the kids are going to be interested in the place you take them, timing your adventure around nap schedules, weather, and of course the terrible 2's!! The aquarium was amazing, and I was so into it. It was the closest I've been to scuba diving in a long time. Then Liam blew a gasket!! He had had enough and he wanted to go!!! Oh well, 2 year olds will be 2 year olds, just one more year to go.



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sorry but that is not what I saw. Everyone get's upset. Marry works when you express your feelings. I am sure Tori does things that get on his nerves and same for him. But you get pass this. There is Love.

Christina J | June 22, 2009 1:12 AM | Reply

Dean, I've been watching your show more and more and now I'm hooked. I really find all the things you say to Tori or about Tori so humorous because so often they remind me of my husband. Every Tues now when my husband comes home from his class I often retell him things you said on the show. Usually they are the naughty ones about Tori. So now he has taken to retelling them back to me when the situation is right. (ie, if I ask him if he likes what I'm wearing, he tells me it would look better on the floor) Such a guy thing I guess. You and Tori are great people to watch and are doing a wonderful job raising your beautiful kids. My husband also has a daugther that he does not get to see much, so seeing that struggle in you made my heart hurt because I know how much it hurts my husband. Thank you for sharing your moments with us viewers.

Tori and Dean. I have been watching your show now and then. One show, you woke up grumby and Tori came to you with a problem in Liams room, the doggy went poopy all over, You over reacted, and showed us a mean side of you, Tori got so scared , she took the kids, out for the day, The HonneyMoon sure looks OVER!!

Dean, My name is Lisa Clement, I please read before you delete.
I would love to help you and Tori with your children. Before I go on let me give you some back ground so you want think I am some crazy nut!!! I have a friend that lives out in ca. Her Father is Glen Holt who is married to Annette Funicello. Glen would know me and my husband. His Daughter names is Sharla McDuffie. I don't want to put out to much information on the internet, However if you will email me I can send you information about myself and tell you why I want to come out there. No its not to become an actor. I have no children, but kids and animals love me. I hope you get this email, I can cook take care of the home and lots of things. I am a multi task. I just love your show and think the kids our great.

Thanks,
Lisa

I tell you the terrible twos are hard, and I will tell you they only get worse. I agree with you 100% when you say that its the toughest age cause it is.I will say Liam is a great kid and so is Stella. It will get better if you teach him right from wrong! Your doing a great job!

HELLO DEAN,
LISTEN YOU FALL IN LOVE AND YOU CANNOT HELP IT. I HAD A SIMILIAR SITUATION. PEOPLE SHOULD NOT JUDGE. YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART WHAT THE TRUTH IS AND I CAN SEE YOU LOVE ALL YOUR CHILDREN. LIVING IN THE SPOTLIGHT IS NOT ALWAYS GLAMOUROUS. NO ONE WOULD LOOK GOOD AND ALWAYS APPEAR TO BE LIVING RIGHT 24/7. DON'T LOSE THAT LOVING FEELING WITH TORI. NO MATTER WHAT. PEOPLE THINK YOU MARRIED HOLLYWOOD ROYALTY TO BOOST YOUR CAREER. I DON'T THINK SO.
I SEE HOW HARD YOU WORK, AT HOME AND ALSO ON LOCATIONS. YOU AND TORI ARE GOOD TOGETHER, SO THE HELL WITH EVERYONE ELSE. TAKE TIME TO SEE JACK HE KNOWS YOU LOVE HIM. KLEE
lee-rebecca@att.net

Roxanna Mitchell | June 15, 2009 4:15 PM | Reply

Dean
I love the way that you help Tori with the kids, and the house, and I know that we don't see every thing on the TV . My husband and I have been married for 19 years.He had 2 girls and I had 2 girls when we got married. We did the honeymoon sex 2 to 3 times a day. Then life changes, we both worked, cleaned, we shared every thing. Know we have my mother in law and father in law that live with us plus a 8 year old grandson (that we have had since he was 3) . My in laws are in pretty bad health so we sold one of our business so that I could stay home and take care of them and the 8 year old. So know we are very lucky if we have sex once a month, and we have made it work for 19 years. I know people that have divorced because of that. So the bottom line is DO YOU LOVE EACH OTHER OR DO YOU LOVE SEX.................

Sara (mom of 6 ) | June 12, 2009 8:04 PM | Reply

Hi Dean,
Gotta make this quick my little one is wanting me. So i tape all the shows and just watched the one at the aquarium. i don't think liam hated it. as i was watching, when you thought he lost it, he was saying "fishy". this was when you were watching the whales. he wanted to go back to the fish. now i'm not an expert but i do have 6 kids and i am used to toddler talk and i'm pretty sure that if you would have heard that and brought him to the "fishies" he would have calmed down. my tip for you, just slow down and listen a little bit more to what he is trying to say it will make him happier because everything is so hard right now for him. in return, you will be happier as well! :o)

Hello Dean-

You rock, your show rocks & your family is wonderful. When will we get to see Jack? so glad he's in LA now!

I'd like to know why you moved. I like the other house so much.

Hi Dean. Just wrote Tori and Mrs. Patsy now it's your turn. lol. Love them with all you have. You have a lot on your shoulder with a busy wife as well as a hurting one, (I read her book, loved it, and Candyland which I feel she wrote as a retaliation of Tori's book.)2 children and Mrs. Patsy. They all need a strong shoulder at times and that is you. I'm sorry Tori isn't into bikes as I ride a Harley Classic and I'm a 54 year old grandmother but that is ok. (Don't rub this in her nose, lol)I'm sure there are some things she does that doesn't interest you. That's what completes 2 people. It would be boring if you two had everything in comman. That's what makes coulples work together. Where you are strong in one area and she isn't, there are areas in her life that she is strong at that you aren't. It's nice to watch a show that is family oriented, not trashy. I liked how you put Liam in time out as he goes thru his 2's. Discipline doesn't have be painful to get the message across. From what I see on TV you are a great dad, husband and friend. Take care of everyone, they need you more than you realize.

Tiffany McDermott | June 10, 2009 11:00 PM | Reply

Hola!
I know you want sex more than 3 times a week but sometimes it is hard for us women to get into the mood which as much stress as what is on our shoulders. My hubby & I have three kids (7, 6 & 3) and when we were both working full time, I was also going to college fulltime for my BA, we both have crafty hobbies, and play with our kids. Sex happens for us in periods - meaning some weeks it is 3 - 5 times a week to 8 - 9 times a week and we have been together for 8 years. Be happy that you are getting it three times a week - my second ex-financee ( before I met my hubby ) wanted to have sex once a month - I felt like the guy in the situation - begging and complaining!!
You are very beautiful together!!

I think it's so sad that these forums, which are supposed to comment on the show and what people enjoy about it (otherwise why waste the time being here blogging?) have turned into this. Remember everyone, you do not know what goes on behind closed doors. So for the woman whose friend's, mother's brother-in-laws wife's uncle thinks he knows Dean's son...I think you all need to chill. Let them live their lives as they please. Yes they are on TV, yes they choose to be there, but they still have a right to control what they speak about in public. This is life folks. People fall in love, they fall out of love, or perhaps, they think they love, and then they learn. Regardless, Dean and Tori feel they have found something true, let them live and stop judging. You never know how you would feel in their situation. Dean CHOSE to have Jack, and he takes care of him. PERIOD. it's not fo ryou to decide how he does it. The second child was not his child, and he never went through with the adoption. PERIOD. So for everyone who doubts that, this stuff is in the legal papers, you can't fake those! His wife went through the process alone. Stop judging, stop harboring resentment. We are here to feel good and escape into the fun, cute and loving world of Tori and Dean, so get over it, or get off the post!

Terrible twos is not the end. Watch out for threes. No one tells you about those. THey are dangerous. You think it is all about over and then they turn three. Yikes!!! I know I have six kids that have gone through them already and my seventh is about to hit the two's. Good luck but be warned.

whoever wrote to frank | June 10, 2009 3:46 PM | Reply

Ok the word Douchebag? Was that necessary. Real mature comment. Listen, Dean did abandon his family- fact. Im sure he "pays" for them and in most peopele's minds that is all he has to do. Whateber makes the Adults happy, ask Tori. Without divulging and without lying, I am a friend of a friend of a Mom who has exchanges with Jack at school and yes that sounds muddied and it it is, but he says Jack does feel like sloppy seconds and can't watch the show or is he is sad. He evn hears comments about seconds and it makes my friends fuaghter sad. For his entire chldhood folks. That alone would make me quit the show no matter How Much Money was involved. Yes Split ups happen but let's put it on TV. Saaaaad for left son. Frank did come across mean and meanspirited but he's right. Sorry.

whoever wrote to frank | June 10, 2009 3:46 PM | Reply

Ok the word Douchebag? Was that necessary. Real mature comment. Listen, Dean did abandon his family- fact. Im sure he "pays" for them and in most peopele's minds that is all he has to do. Whateber makes the Adults happy, ask Tori. Without divulging and without lying, I am a friend of a friend of a Mom who has exchanges with Jack at school and yes that sounds muddied and it it is, but he says Jack does feel like sloppy seconds and can't watch the show or is he is sad. He evn hears comments about seconds and it makes my friends fuaghter sad. For his entire chldhood folks. That alone would make me quit the show no matter How Much Money was involved. Yes Split ups happen but let's put it on TV. Saaaaad for left son. Frank did come across mean and meanspirited but he's right. Sorry.

Dean you are doing a wounderful job with the kids. I like the idea that your son Jack is not on the TV. You are his parent and you have to consider the wishes of his mother and also your son. Don't let other people's comments bother you. I see how you do things on TV with your show. You are doing a fantastic job and yes the 2's are very horrible. Been there, done that, you are right with not letting Liam have the upper hand in the temper department. Keep it up.

frankk is right | June 10, 2009 1:34 PM | Reply

His son lives in la you sad tweens- and yes you are right, all we see is what is on TV- Jack as well. You think if Dean doesnt have time for the kids in his house that Jack sees much more of him in Los ANgeles (WHERE JACK LIVES NOW) that what is on TV. OhIm sure Jack get phone Calls VEERY NIGHT- woppee- Dean SHOULD be ashamed., I agree. That is why he is slef imploding. He knows what he did and what must circle in Jacks head every day.

geeze dude! not cool to be so mean! did you ever think about dean is considering his son's privacy and respecting jack and his mom! maybe his son doen not want to be in the lime light and maybe dean does not want jack to be talked about and put under a microscope like he is! Plus, his son lives so far away that its not like he can see him everyday and just because you don't see it on tv dont mean he doesn't talk or keep in touch with his son! Just because they are on tv doesn't mean you see everything! You really need to think before you speak!

HEY DEAN!! I LOVE YOUUUUUUU JAJAJA HOPE THAT DOESNT MAKE TORI JEALOUS JAJAJA

ONE QUICK QUESTION WHERE CAN I FIND YOUR MOVIE,"Always and forever"??? I am dying to seee it.. Please let me know

thanks

JoAnn Sowinski | June 9, 2009 10:53 PM | Reply


Dean you and Tori are so cute with your kids and Patsy love to watch you guys can't get enough of you. Liam looks like Aaron to me and Stella looks like you. Keep the good shows coming and I pray that Tori and her Mom get together life is too short. Jo Ann


Anonymous
replied to comment from Frank | June 9, 2009 5:08 PM | Reply

FRANK you are a STUPID man and a LONELY #&@% ING MAN I GOT ONE WORD ""GET A LIFE""

dear douchebag frank,
don't be a hater! i say props to dean for being a great dad! he loves his wife and wants her to be happy, he loves his kids (all three of them) and he does whatever he can to give them a good life. i'm sure that somehow in life you have failed as a man or father, who knows?? and i see you feel the need to lash out via the internet where it's safe and no one knows who you are, but really...it that necessary? tori and dean are happy, successful, in love parents who make the world a brighter place! if only other married couples could take a cue from them! sorry you are such a miserable human being frank, if you hate him so much, change the channel and don't read the blog! pretty simple solution for ya

Stop talking about your new family like your little boy and girl you pretend you didnt "start" exist- at least pretend to treat Jack the same- he knows he has no dollar signs- you ARE a bad Dad- how do you go on camera and smile.... No wonder we are watching you slowly self destruct---- in your mind you MUST be thinking, when you and Tori split and he husband leaves for something else, "How does SHE like it"- that's what happens guys....Though he knows where the money is, this is worse, he will stay and just be angry- you are a middle aged fool who should crawl back to jack

Hi Dean,
I have become a regular watcher of your and Tori's show. You guys are really fun and cute together I would love to see you in more leading man roles--you can definitely play the more badass/scary kind of guy, even though you are so sweet and nice to Tori and are great with the kids. It's actually kind of funny to see a tough guy like you do the ordinary household/taking care of the kids things. You seem like a very down to earth kind of guy. Good luck with the show and all of your ventures together! Agree with the previous poster about reality show couples, so you guys just keep on taking care of each other.
Best wishes for a wonderful future!

Dean,

I see nobody has made any comments on your blog today, so hear I go.
First I must say, your a great father. Sorry you don't get to see that much of Jack as you would like to, but he knows you love him and will always be there for him too.
Second, Sex is that all you guys think about, yes, when we first get together its every minute of the day, if you all could, but, as time goes by its the job, the kids, the bills, the sleep, etc. Don't worry, as my husband of 16 yrs, his first, my second, says it still works! Sometimes it just finding the time.
Also, I love the hobbies you try to do. Scuba, bike riding and now motorcycles. good luck, tell Tori its better then going fishing all the time. I'm with a Boat Capt. and I rather he go sking with me, but when I go skiing, he goes to the ocean for the week. Thats are one time a year separate vacations. Be careful on the bike though, try to get Tori to ride, first on a street bike around town, slow, she might start to like it. I know she doesn't want to,there's always hope. Maybe try drag racing? hahaha
Well best of luck and God Speed.

Don't let the reality show break you guys up like they have almost every couple on tv so far, think about it, tell me a couple still together, besides the Osbournes?

You guys are great together, keep loving.


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