AMBER M.

Meeting More Bad Girls


On the second day in the Bad Girls house, I went upstairs with the other Amber and we heard the girls talking in the confessional. We went up to the door to see if they were talking about us and I heard them laughing and talking sh*t about me. I was upset because one minute they are nice to my face and the next they are in the confessional making fun of me. Breaking into the confessional was my way of calling them out. I really had no idea when I walked in what they were so upset about because they had failed to mention anything to me. I was very surprised with their reaction after I interrupted their trash-talking session. They were really upset I broke in and Kayla just happened to be the one who brought everything out in the open. I was upset with Kayla because I thought she was being fake because the night before we had some great conversations and opened up to each other and then she was sitting with the other girls talking crap.








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COOKIEEEEEEEEEEEE. you and amber were the only ones who made the show interesting! me and my friend kara LOOOOOOOOVE you. without you two the show would have been dumb. me and kara go around everyday calling each other cookie and throwing gummy bears at everyone ahahaha. we think they should give you your own show. no joke. madd people would watch it. :)

amber, listen f**k aliea. shes a dumb b!t*h. she'll get wats comin 2 her. shes the weakest 1 n shes usin every1 2 hate u. n kayla is mad f**king fake! oooo she gotta act all bad cuz she from compton. so f**king wat. im from the bx, i kno girls like kayla, tiffany, amber...

i love you amber! you and tiff and of course tanisha is my favs! so't let any of these hoes get you down especially that kc bitch ughh hot mess!

I think you have guts for going into that confessional and even though you annoyed me at first, when I seen you stand up for yourself when the girls were in your face, I couldn't help but clap my hands.
You might be clueless, but you're definitely no push over. I like that about you. In fact, that's what got me to like you.
Even though you're small, I know you could take Ailea down with no problem. Maybe that's why she's going around trying to get everyone to hate you, she must know it too.
The reason you two didn't click? She seen you were more interesting than she is. She's an attention wh0re and you're competition. She's boring as hell. If she didn't run around like a little rat bothering people, no one would even realize she's in the room.

Amber, barging into a confessional may be bad form, but I understood it as a natural reaction to the sudden maelstrom of anger and hurt feelings stirring inside you. I do NOT condone listening in on the conversations of others however. Curiosity killed the cat, or in this case, hara**ed the house mate.

The scene where you stood in the hall with the other women screaming at you was full of pathos. How you stalled back tears is beyond me.

omg i lovee you!..
ur my favorite on the show, dnt let those other
b***hes bring you down.

=]

i watched the first episode on accident. it came on at like 2 in the morning on a sunday so i watched it. man im sorry that happened. i feel so sorry for this generation of men. between all the sluts on girls gone wild and now this crap? how are you supposed to find a wife these days. shes either gonna be a total c**t or a slut. god im glad i already have a woman. and then to see all the responses on here just show that there is obviously more of the same at home watching. i personally would not date one of these girls. not one.

Amber stand up for your self and have fun, just hange with the other amber and tiff, they are the only girls that really like you for you and they don't act like b***hes like the other f**king b***hes in the house. You are right about them being followers and if they get mad about it then it is so true becaue people don't like the truth, and being real is being truthful with others and not back stabbing eitheir. You get into a fight go for the f**king throat and just press really hard and the b***h will pa** out girl, i wish i was there because i would of kick that f**king b***h a**. Kalya thinks she is so hard up and she not, she is just making her own family look bad and also making other people in the getto look bad to, some of us aren't like that at all. Amber stay cool and don't stand down for nothing girl. peace out

HOMEGURL CLUELESS!!!!

b***h THIS IS THE BAD GIRLS CLUB NOT THE DITZY b***hES CLUB, LIKE I DON'T AGREE WITH NOTHING KAYLA SAY BUT THAT. AMBER YOU JUST DON'T GOT IT ALL LIKE THE sh*t YOU SAY IS UNECESSARY AND YOU WILL LEARN TO SHUT UP THE HARD WAY. I DON'T EVEN THINK YOUR a** DESERVE TO BE ON THE SHOW.

I THINK U ARE COOL AT LEAST U STICK UP FOR URSELF
AND UR NOT A FOLLOWER DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY U JUST BE UR SELF AND f**k UP ANYONE WHO TRIES TO BRING U DOWN

Datz wat i'm sayin like she can't go around sayin stuff like dat cus she said it herself on the she say stuff dat affend people then try 2 play like she don't kno it like wtf:)

LOOK BOO BOO. U NEED 2 COME UP OUT OF DAT LIL BUBBLE UR LIVING && WAKE THEE HELL UP. U NEED 2 WATCH WAT U SAY CUS NOT EVERYONES GONNA TAKE IT DA WAY UR SAYIN IT. DATS ALL I GOTTA SAY. UNTILL NEXT TIME.

You are my Fav on the show! ;-)

You are super cute and seem so sweet...


Don't let those other B*tches in the house get to you!

DiviaStar626 | December 7, 2008 8:26 PM | Reply

I dont care what the other opinions are about this girl. I do not think she says anything too horrible she probably does say dumb comments and offensive things that may hurt sensitve people feelings, but a person that does not give a damn would not be butt hurt over it! This girl needs to stand up for herself and actually tell them b****'s to jump off then! If that is how they really feel.

DiviaStar626 | December 7, 2008 8:24 PM | Reply

I dont care what the other opinions are about this girl. I do not think she says anything too horrible she probably does say dumb comments and offensive things that may hurt sensitve people feelings, but a person that does not give a damn would would not be butt hurt over it! This girl needs to stand up for herself and actually tell them b****'s to jump off then! If that is how they really feel.

First of all what is your problem she saying that everybody get jealous of her no matter where she go if she told u to clean up her $#!+ what would u do I don't understand that is not right:)

Why u talking about everybody jealous of u b!+c# u ain't nobody but dumb @$$ b!+c# who need your @$$ whooped and I can't wait 2 see Kayla beat u down and I wish I was where u are right now so I can show u what I mean TRICK!

Amber is so far from being dum. She was raised in a positive environment, but excluded from other parts of the world. She is learning, and growing at the same time. Give her time hopefully she will learn through her negative ways in this show. But you need to take a look at yourself and stop making judgement on other people.
WARNING:
Amber is going to KICK Kayla a** in the upcoming episodes so stay tune.

Much Life
C.Tree

You need to get off your high horse. I can't believe you had the guts to ask the other girls to clean up after you. You're not a bad girl, you're just plain spoiled.

i think ur a dumb b***h and u need to get off the show

IM STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY YOU ARE ON THIS SHOW. YOU DONT SEEM LIKE A BAD GIRL. YOU SEEM LIKE A REGULAR PARTY GIRL THAT IS IN HER OWN WORLD. I DONT KNOW MAYBE IT IS TOO EARLY TO TELL RIGHT?

You remind me of a blow up doll. Nothing but air. Can you wipe your own a**?

This is ridiculous...the show has been on once and everyone is already telling people to go kill themselves? Have you ever heard of cyberbullying? You can go jail for telling someone to kill themselves! If you don't like the show, change the damn channel, but for those of us that want to watch and see how it all plays out, SHUT UP!!

Thank you very much.

woah who wud evere want2 be amber can u sam ad dumb lol =]

I love you Amber, you're the sh*t. You remind me of myself. Just kind of in your own little bubble, don't give a f**k what anyone else says. Wehn you threw that drink on Kayla, HAHAH that was great.

Sounds like somebody is jealous.....

hey how about having a name on your profile or are you to chicken to be called out. You slang all this hate on everyone. If you hate the show so bad why don't you watch the real world or something. I think you'd be good on this show since it sound like you love yourself and have a bad attitude towards others

amber you need to stick up for your self more i wish i was one the show to help you but it looks like your handeling it well cause it looked like you beat that bitckh kayla a** in the previews i hope so dont ever let a stank box b***h like that all in your face anyway be easy an do u dont let a dumb b***h like that make you leave the show

I totally agree with ya...

tierra nugent | December 4, 2008 8:27 PM | Reply

Amber
I am so very sorry about what happend to you the next day i mean it was only 24hrs they barley even know you i wanted to cry cuz all you did was try to be a nice girl laugh and make people laugh.And your right those other girls are followers there just gellous because your not like them and your there to change you from who you are and i saw the previews plez dont go stay i like better then all the other girls dont let them get to u i had girls act just like that to me it got to me at first but i didnt let it bother me anymore there know one there just doin that to make themsels feel better dont worry youll be ok love you be watchin you on the show hope u stay like you are dont be afraid of them espacialy kala well by love your persanality

tierra nugent | December 4, 2008 8:27 PM | Reply

Amber
I am so very sorry about what happend to you the next day i mean it was only 24hrs they barley even know you i wanted to cry cuz all you did was try to be a nice girl laugh and make people laugh.And your right those other girls are followers there just gellous because your not like them and your there to change you from who you are and i saw the previews plez dont go stay i like better then all the other girls dont let them get to u i had girls act just like that to me it got to me at first but i didnt let it bother me anymore there know one there just doin that to make themsels feel better dont worry youll be ok love you be watchin you on the show hope u stay like you are dont be afraid of them espacialy kala well by love your persanality

Amber...
Well all i have to say is that your so funny and beautiful. I like all the girls in the house. Just dont worry about ppl and do your best. Just kinda watch wat u say lol...Im a blonde. And yes i have those moments. I think you are so cool and funny!

I honestly feel, despite what others might think, that you are the most real in the house. I like how little ol' you stood up for yourself against pretty much the whole house. It was a very brave and courageous thing to do. You might say tings that the others take personally but I know that you mean no harm from it. I actually think that you are hilarious and there should be more care free people out there in the world like you. They are just attacking you because they saw you as weak but they were wrong, LOL... Keep strong girl.

Amber I am black. I can see why they may have thought your comments were racist, but we all make comments that can be looked at as such. Good girl for walking in on those b***hes talkin about you. If Ailea thought you said something sooo wrong then she should have confronted you when you first said something instead of rounding up a posse and then saying some sh*t. I would have ask them b***hes to clean up for me too. People take the race thing too seriously and there is where the problem lies. Kayla is a b***h! Don't leave the show because of her. She's petty.

YOUR UGLY!
YOUR DUMB
I HOPE SOMEONE BEATS THE sh*t OUT OF YOU!
AND THE BAD GIRLS CLUB SEASON 2 WAS WAY BETTER
THIS SEASON SEEMS VERY DUMB. TIFF&SARAH ARE MY FAV THE REST OF U ARE UGH.
BUT BACK TO YOU. f**k YOU!
OH AND UR PIC IS SUPER UGLY.
FAT b***h

wrong amber it was amber b that made the racist comments not amber m

Omgsh! Amber you are awesome! Please dont make your roommates make you change. Seriously..

Hi Amber,

I like the way you stood up for yourself. Your real. Oh, and your hot too!!

I felt bad for you amber...everyone ganged up on you for no reason. They talked about respect and thats the reason they were mad about you going into the confessional when it really should have been you who was mad.Dont talk about respect when your running your mouth about other people ladies!!!! I think your cool and while i expect everyone to gang up on you very very very often ( you are the weakest in the bunch..meaning i dont see you standing up for yourself in the near future)i hope that you dont pull an Andrea and leave with your tail between your legs!

Amber,you're a cool lil' chic,don't let the likes of Kayla, or any of the other girl's. Ignorance break your spirit...just keep being you. I like that you got love for the "Brutha's" to. When you let the other,not so ethnicly friendly(toward's black men)girl,know that people are good or bad black or white. Stay strong...stay cool!!! Sam B Ohio

Amber, I made a mistake, I like Tiffany. Its that Kayla Compton Chick. Do not let Kayla push you around. She is all talk. Tiffany is my girl.

I apologize but Tiffany is cool. Its the Kayla who is is talking to much sh*t. Tell Tiffany I'm sorry!

Amber, I really like you, It seems as if you can hold your own. Do not let Tiffany push you around or scare you. You are really a tough white chick. Stay on the show! Tiffany is all talk. Just be cool with comments you make about other ethnic groups. But you are really a down as chick. Just work on your personality.

Much Love
Tree

How and why did the girls take offense to you asking them to clean??? I mean I get it, they want the house cleaned and you don't like to clean so rather then pissing them off you offered to pay someone. Its a no brainer...glad to see you don't back down and don't let those skanks getcha down.

WEST WEST YA'LL | December 3, 2008 8:04 PM | Reply

I like you Amber M...just watch what you say, because everyone's reaction is different....stay sweet!!

Knowledgeable | December 3, 2008 2:18 PM | Reply

I need you to do me a favor and think before you speak. You embarrasses yourself and your family. Spewing prejudices does nothing but hold you back. No one likes a bigot

Amber, it's Nikki from home. Don't you take that from those b***hes. You are a strong and good person. They are just trying to prove that they are b***hes. Don't leave the show, have fun!! You arn't like these other girls. You are better than them. Everyone could obviously tell that you ment nothing by then asian comment and the picking up after you. I didn't think that you were trying to hurt their feelings. They just need something to b***h about and that was the only thing that they could find. They just want to prove themselves. Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer! We are all rooting for you back home! Take care!!!

OMG. People are so sensitive. Give me a break. Girl i think ur ok. I felt bad for u on the show yesterday. I thought u were just being u. Someone who isnt closeminded and ignorant would know that u were being u. Dont get down. I thought u stood ur ground well. Dont let people break u down.

Amber!!!
I cannot believe that I turned on the Bad Girls and there you were! Keep your head up and don't let those b***hES get you down...those girls need to be taught some manners. From knowing you, you are a sweet girl and also know that you don't always think before you talk, but that is who you are, don't change just because you ruffle some whacked out girls feathers. Kayla can eat a big D*CK for all I care. Ailea needs a tougher skin...she is just a pouty b***h that likes to start sh*t and cause conflict. We know and grew up with enough girls like that in Montevideo to know what they are all about. Take care of yourself and I will be watching the show. Keep standing up for yourself and be true to yourself. Love ya! Kristin

Amber you really need to think before you speak because your gonna come up on the wrong person and they are gonna beat your a$$, no but serouisly watch what you say because you can hurt a lot of people.

Tia I feel u girl, I'm mexican and i'm a lighter shade of brown.I'm as fair as the white girls and i was blonde when i was lil.Not ur typical stereotype of a mexican! I had to deal with black girls calling me white trash and girls like that are most hating ass racist b***hes. Don't let weak minded people make u feel any less cuz ur not like them. they don't realize that nobody is a 100% black.everybody is mixed somehow!
My advice to you is get yourself involved in a boxing gym or mma gym, take the power to defend urself. Ur going to feel better all the way around and the confidence if a bonus!That's what i did and u know what I know great people and helped stay out of trouble,I've met lots of well known fighters too! Those girls who are picking on u, they're jelous and they're not happy with themselves, girls like that turn out to be the biggest losers in life! I know , all my old bullies are fat with 4 to 5 kids by different daddies live at home, don't have crap to show! karma is a b***h! cuz they got slapped by the ugly bat too!

Amber, It's good that u stood up for urself and i don't blame u for going into that room and busting those two-faced b***hes.I just don't think it was the smartest thing to do.When u get angry like dat it's hard to think.I would've kept it to myself and drop the bombs at the right time.Ur only thing is u do talk to much, u should worry about other people liking you.U came off kinda ditsy but any smart person can see that u were nervous and was just trying make conversation with the rest of the girls.If those b***hes were real,they could've put u the side and let u know that u were coming off a certain way.Like my dad told me if they hit u hit'em back.!HOw weak and lame are those u let little things bother them to gain up on one person.It was funny how u hit that nerve by calling followers cuz that's exactly how they came off and if it wasn't true, Y they get so mad for!Girls like Kayla underestimate people they look at as weak and that's her down fall!

I think they are just all HATERS! I thought you was sweet also. Dingy but sweet!

You Should have THOUGHT BEFORE YOU SPOKE!!!!DAMN IS IT THAT HARD TO THINK B4 UR ACTIONS SWEETIE

Soooo... all these haters on here can go somewhere! People are jealous. You were very upbeat and fun! You're definitley my favorite, and I liked the way you could hold your own. I knew you were joking w the asian thing, and even the whole cleaning up thing. I thought you were funny! Don't listen to these haters!

And PS!

Did anyone else catch all the racist remarks from everyone else??

"I only like black boys."

"I only date within my race."

And they get mad over a joke?!?!
They're just jealous honey.

I LOVED YOU

You're a really stupid b***h & your mother should be ashamed that she not only raised a silly c*** like you, she sent you into the world - so now OTHER people have to deal with you. kill yourself.

Amber B is from The Burgh, not this one. And I get a kick outta her anyway. The teeniest one in the house~catches the crap~and stands there with a smile, she kills me.

Are you for real? Your airheadedness is a disgrace to the human race.

"Iam from pittsburgh and ill be damned if your IGNORANT ass is going to represent women from steel town. Your comment about blacks and mexicans was inappropriate.Think b4 you speak. Oh!and by the way we have a black president know."

Obama was only elected because all the African-Americans voted for him (96%), whereas the whites voted closer to the real election results (54-46 for McCain.)


The election was racist and the whites were punished for voting correctly.

It seems African-Americans have not changed like we thought they did.

Ummm yes he is black like only 4% he also white do your homework .I am so sick and tired of hearing about that sh*t who cares what color our president is . As long as he does his job right I don't care .

Stay strong my dear! Do not let these dirty hussies harm your soul!

Amber, you really kept pretty calm when that gal threw her drink on you. You might be a skinny white girl, as I am, but some people really underestimate us, that girl could have been really in trouble...but, think more, talk less, hopefully, in the future, you can still be yourself but try not to cause rifts, thats no fun! But next time try and stick up for yourself, Im proud of you for walking in on those fake 'b***hes that couldn't say that sh*t to your face. If they weren't so scared of you, then they probably would have. BTW, I would have done the same thing and called those b***hes out....good for you!

ok.
u dont have to act mean towards amber just because shes a little ditzy dosent mean she dosent understand the word seriously.

Ok girl. If you thought you were hitting it off nice at first, you need to pay more attention to the responses you were getting than the words you were blethering. and you were blethering. While you were yakking Ailea's ears off in the car, she was slumped against the window, bodylanguage: trying to get away from you. When you were yakking at your roomate while unpacking clothes, you should have noticed that you were annoying her by the way she just make noncommital noises like "mmm" while wearing a blank facial expression and how she kept walking to another part of the room, preferring to talk short phrases to you from a distance. PAY ATTENTION! The things you say are silly, airy, and unintelligent. On top of it, you don't spare a thought about how they may come across the people, or if you do, you don't care enough to change it.

"I will pay you to clean up after me."
"I know a really good joke, but I don't want to say it, because I can't do a good asian accent (turns to the only asian person in the room) "Can you do a good asian accent?"

Your discomfort around others, especially those of another ethnicity, is palpable. You need to really work on that. You're misfiring left and right.

So far You are my favorite. It was the right thing to do to bust in on them two faced b***hes. Kayla made herself look ridiculous and you handled her and her FOLLOWERS real well. I would of laughed in their faces and "blah blahed" them too haha..Dont leave!

Hii Amber M. I can relate to you so much, your fun, your pretty, you don't take things to serious, and your full of positive energy. I don't think what you said was that big of a deal. Everyone says stupid stuff all the time and the way the girls went off on you was just horrible, their just jealous. I am actually a 15 yr old blk female (mixed with white and native american) and I live around ghetto black girls like kayla. I am always getting messed with by them type of girls, they call me stupid and call me white and I never know what to do but I loved the way you handled it. The way you look I thought you was going to runaway but No, you actually stood there prepared to fight. You really inspired me to stand up for myself.

Amber I feel that you are a really sweet girl with the best of intentions. However the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Remember, the least said is easiest mended.

I just watched the first show and you got it bad.I do feel sorry for you but I think you are trying to hard to make your mark with the girls.I see you try to laugh and joke but it may come off different than funny or sweet. Remember some of these girls have trust and boundary issues.You maybe to much in their face. Plus, being from MN isn't why your not aware of your talkie issue or airhead issue. I am from here and I have decent income and I don't tell others I am used to being served or getting my way.I hope that you can just stay clear of Kayla. She needs space and it is better to choice your battles. No need to fight with here because she will not see your side. Give her room and speak later in private.

Amber,I adore you already. You are so sweeet and bad, a perfect combo! I love you !!! I dont like Kayla's Want 2 Be Bad Ass. And That Ass Riding Whitney and sh*t Starting Ailea... they Just Need to Grow up, and Really Get a Life... O Yeah and It was said That we Have a Black president Now and he is also white...lol so why cant we all just get along for a chang... His mom is white and dad is black to great colors... God Bless And Have A great Night :-)

I think her personality is great ! its a shame that people take her the wrong way ! grow up

dont let these stupid girls ruin your time being in the house. and dont let them run all over you. you were right to call them followers cause thats what they are. dont talk as much...just observe them.

Iam from pittsburgh and ill be damned if your IGNORANT ass is going to represent women from steel town. Your comment about blacks and mexicans was inappropriate.Think b4 you speak. Oh!and by the way we have a black president know.

RED SOX CHIC | December 2, 2008 11:25 PM | Reply

HUNNY WATCH WHAT YOU SAY! CLEARLY....YOU UPSET PEOPLE...THATS YOUR ANSWER FOR NOT HAVING ANY GIRLFRIENDS!

Amber... your cute and all but if you dont like negative, judgemental people with Bad attitudes then you are really on the wrong show.,

Seriously (not to use big words), but I (who is black) have a lot of blonde white friends and you just made me embarassed (another big word) for them. READ A BOOK ALREADY!!!! What are you on a fifth grade level. Your mom should've taught you that looks were books.... no good man really wants a dumb chick.... Good Luck With That Though

you seem sweet and dingy, not necessarily a bad thing although some ppl don't like it.. but the "talk less, think more" phrase comes to mind. Don't get me wrong, not tryig to be rude, you said it yourself you talk first.

I LIKE YOU...IM DINGY TOO AND I THINK IT'S COOL...WHO CARES WHAT OTHER THINK GOD PUT US HERE TO BE ALL THAT WE CAN BE AND NOT WHAT OTHERS WANT TO SEE...I POSTED THIS ON THE OTHER AMBER BUT THIS IS FOR YOU

I adore you already. You are so sweeet and bad, a perfect combo! I love you Cookie!!! I dont like Kayla. I bet her breathe stinks~ Thats what she get's from being a nasty stripper!~ he he he

Amber dear...TALK LESS...THINK MORE. You have so much potential, but treat your looks as though they will fade any day (because its already started by aging alone). Focus on your education and the strength provided to you via your personality and you will find that those two things will take you much farther then looks alone ever do.

Best of luck to you!


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